cowboyup
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I apologize if this may be offensive to some; I am repeating only what my SIL and I were discussing.
My SIL and I had a conversation the other day (yes, we do have civil times in the house-whoa!) and she was telling me about a meeting at work she had attended. After the meeting, Some of the teachers were talking about how there is a 'trend' or something going around where men are telling/or rather, demanding, their girlfriend/wife to stay thin - like within a certain weight range. Fluctuation in weight during the month is 'allowed' but if the woman gains over a certain amount, the man will leave her.
SIL was talking to a teacher who brought this subject up and the teacher was saying that her daughter (who is in her late 20's) has a boyfriend and he told her he'd "leave her a**" if she gained 40 lbs or more because he doesn't like fat people. A few pounds here and there is OK as long as the woman does not get 'fat' and the guy looks at this as the woman not taking care of herself - just being a lazy slob.
According to my SIL, other teachers encountered similar things with their daughter or know of someone who this has happened to. One teacher said she overheard a friend of her daughter say that her boyfriend was boasting how he actually had past girlfriends say that he had given them a complex and were afraid to even gain a pound and I guess he was laughing about it.
This is quite disturbing, in my opinion. Like women/girls/teenagers don't have enough eating disorders, now this?
What are your thoughts? Have you ever heard of this before? Even though the women may of legal age, should the parent say something?
My SIL and I had a conversation the other day (yes, we do have civil times in the house-whoa!) and she was telling me about a meeting at work she had attended. After the meeting, Some of the teachers were talking about how there is a 'trend' or something going around where men are telling/or rather, demanding, their girlfriend/wife to stay thin - like within a certain weight range. Fluctuation in weight during the month is 'allowed' but if the woman gains over a certain amount, the man will leave her.
SIL was talking to a teacher who brought this subject up and the teacher was saying that her daughter (who is in her late 20's) has a boyfriend and he told her he'd "leave her a**" if she gained 40 lbs or more because he doesn't like fat people. A few pounds here and there is OK as long as the woman does not get 'fat' and the guy looks at this as the woman not taking care of herself - just being a lazy slob.
According to my SIL, other teachers encountered similar things with their daughter or know of someone who this has happened to. One teacher said she overheard a friend of her daughter say that her boyfriend was boasting how he actually had past girlfriends say that he had given them a complex and were afraid to even gain a pound and I guess he was laughing about it.
This is quite disturbing, in my opinion. Like women/girls/teenagers don't have enough eating disorders, now this?
What are your thoughts? Have you ever heard of this before? Even though the women may of legal age, should the parent say something?