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Steppen-Wolf

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  • Nanita
    Hello again. Yes I´m european, I´m from Denmark!
    I don´t mind u asking about my "issues". My issues/diagnosis, is like a mix of social phobia, avoidant personality disorder and mild schizoid personality disorder. I have withdrawn myself more and more from people/the outer world, and have participated more and more in an inner world of thoughts, ideas, fantasy, etc. It´s very healthy for me to do a lot of art, music and other creative projects. But I also need to start socializing more.

    Entiendo lo que quieres decir con "no recomendar su país como destino turistico" ;)
    De hecho he hablado con personas que viajaron por allá, y todos me dijeron que es un país hermoso, y no tenían muchos problemas viajando en Colombia, en comparacion con otros países..
    No sé.. Trato no escuchar a las historias de horror, porque si lo hiciera, no me atrevería a ir a ninguna parte :idontknow:
    L
    Thanks. :) I may sound articulate online because I put thought into writing my posts. IRL, I don't sound witty at all when speaking to people. I suffer from SA and suspect I have asperger's.
    Nanita
    Steppen-wolf, nice to see your message! I hope you are well?
    I´m ok, doing things I like. Seeing a really good therapist, finally, after many therapists that were wrong for me.
    I feel like I should write in spanish, but english is quicker right now..
    To answer your question: yes travelling can be difficult; asking for help, depending on strangers to offer a helping hand.. but in situations like that, a force of survival instinct comes over me and I try to do whatever is needed. There were scary and lonely times. But I also met nice people, expecially locals! I had beautiful encounters with random people at weird places..
    I always avoid places crowded with backpackers...that sort of socializing is horror to me. The way I deal with travelling is to take it easy, plan everything I need to plan, try not to worry, be present in each moment, not force myself to socialize if I don´t want to.
    I really want to go to South America soon. Cartagena is on the list!
    :)
    Srijita52
    Yeah, it is. I guess its a little ironic in a way that while I appreciate this sometimes, particularly when I'm too stressed or need a break from things, its not very helpful when I'm trying to be independent or face my problems. What about you? Are you in the same situation?
    Srijita52
    Hey, sorry my chat isn't working as in I can't give a reply. But I love talking to random strangers, atleast here. :p Hope you're doing well. :)
    *Amy*
    Historia? No tengo mucho que contar, jeje... Bueno, si es sobre mi fobia social, la he tenido desde siempre, desde que puedo recordar he sido siempre muy muy tímida, aunque la cosa fue empeorando con los años :( Aunque ahora estoy decidida a superarla; de hecho, si me preparo un poco mentalmente, puedo llegar a sobrellevar algunas situaciones :)
    Perdón por el tocho, jeje. Saludos! :)
    *Amy*
    Hola!! Tú no estarás también por casualidad en el foro en español, no? Es que me suena tu nick, pero no lo podría asegurar. Saludetes!! :)
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