GoBlue72
Well-known member
I saw there was a previous thread on this issue, which has been dead for a few months or so. I wondered if anyone had any good experiences with the dating websites out there? I tried a couple of them many years ago, with very little success. I was checking out some of them recently and posted a profile. It got me wondering if other people were having luck and just not me. I hear a lot of people knowing someone who has had great luck with this, and others who have had luck with it themselves. Do you think it's similar to dating in the real world? Or is it easier for you? Or is it even tougher because it's so easy to reject someone by hitting a key on your keyboard?
My results: 6 months paid membership on match.com and 3 months paid membership on eharmony. I got one date off match.com and emailed many women with maybe two responding back in six months. I emailed several women on eharmony with nothing ever happening, and I couldn't continue to pay the web fee, and got no dates. Is this pretty standard do you think? I know without posting pictures I got zero inquiry, and most of the inquiries later on were spam or scams from Russia. I wondered if maybe the most attractive profiles were getting 90% of the traffic and the rest of us were just waiting around. Any opinions? Am I overthinking this and just didn't give it enough time? Even the people saying they are looking for friends to talk to, seem to not respond even though I can see they viewed my profile.
My results: 6 months paid membership on match.com and 3 months paid membership on eharmony. I got one date off match.com and emailed many women with maybe two responding back in six months. I emailed several women on eharmony with nothing ever happening, and I couldn't continue to pay the web fee, and got no dates. Is this pretty standard do you think? I know without posting pictures I got zero inquiry, and most of the inquiries later on were spam or scams from Russia. I wondered if maybe the most attractive profiles were getting 90% of the traffic and the rest of us were just waiting around. Any opinions? Am I overthinking this and just didn't give it enough time? Even the people saying they are looking for friends to talk to, seem to not respond even though I can see they viewed my profile.