I will most likely within the next 3 months, so at the age of 20 then. But if it's any consolation, it's merely because the situation allows it. I'm going to see my boyfriend during that time, so we have like a two week window for it. And it's also been discussed for nearly a year before we came to that decision. Not to mention I know him for merely 4 years. It's hardly a spur of the moment thing.
If events went as I planned they would, I'd still be without a partner and intimate possibilities. I'd most likely remain a 'virgin' for at least another decade. Without feeling any kind of remorse over it, may I add.
So no, you're not pathetic at all. Sexual intercourse is something you enjoy PERSONALLY with someone else, loosing your virginity is not a item with which you can/should measure someone's/your own worth.