How are you feeling?

MrJones

MrJones

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KiaKaha said:
Rejection is painful.
I have so much of it.
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Yeah, I can relate...

The thing is, if you care about someone and you're friendly with them but they just ignore you or something worse, it's their loss! I know it hurts, but trying to be logical, they lose a friend and you lose no one.

Feel free to chat with me anytime you want, my inbox is always there.
 
planemo

planemo

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MrJones said:
Yeah, I can relate...

The thing is, if you care about someone and you're friendly with them but they just ignore you or something worse, it's their loss! I know it hurts, but trying to be logical, they lose a friend and you lose no one.

Feel free to chat with me anytime you want, my inbox is always there.
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Yeah I agree, rejection is a real downer.

I only interact with people on the web, and I have been given the cold shoulder after being polite and friendly to certain people for a while. NOT PEOPLE ON SPW. Then said people just ignore me for seemingly no reason. They just stop correspondence and my mind just wonders what the reasons could be. I take the silent treatment really personally. I'd much rather a person tell me they don't wanna be my friend and why. I wish I could look at rejection the way you stated (as the other persons lost), but when you're so starved of any human contact it's very hard to feel anything but down.
 
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Phoenixx

Phoenixx

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Pissed, yet for some reason somewhat amused. My cousin was packing up the rest of her things to leave today. I finally just got a chance to ask her, "Hey, do you still have my yoga book? I think you also borrowed a college handbook thing from me too." That's all I asked. What happened? She completely flipped out on me. She just gives me this bit of attitude and tells me, "Oh well they're with my dad now because I packed them up." and then all of a sudden she starts acting really pissed off and starts yelling at my mom, "She was going to give me those books! She was going to sell them to me! She's harassing me about them now!" and then she just yells at me to "Grow up!" Really? Lol, wtf? I didn't WANT to piss her off, and I WASN'T trying to at all. I actually couldn't even talk to her the day she got here because I'm now too afraid to talk to her because she's like a ticking time bomb all the time. Freaking christ.

...All over books. Seriously, this is retarded. I'm not even trying to make a humongous deal about it. The only reason I wanted them back a little more than usual is because 1) They're college textbooks I bought new and they're in pretty good condition and 2) I need money for school, and in general, and I was going to sell them.
 
shakethelight

shakethelight

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KiaKaha said:
Good night SPW - so its my bedtime now.
Tomorrow I will wake up and live another day of my existence. One day closer to death.

Go to work where everyone ignores me - so I can get paid to buy food to keep me alive so I can go to work to get paid - to live an existence that is unfulfilling. Over and over again...

oh well - at least as each day passes I wont have so many left to live out. See... I *CAN* look on the bright side.

and you all think I am pessimistic.

Ridiculous.

Now excuse me while I cry myself to sleep.
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:( I hope when you wake, things are much better for you. Even if they aren't I believe they will be soon.
 
shakethelight

shakethelight

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Phoenixx said:
Pissed, yet for some reason somewhat amused. My cousin was packing up the rest of her things to leave today. I finally just got a chance to ask her, "Hey, do you still have my yoga book? I think you also borrowed a college handbook thing from me too." That's all I asked. What happened? She completely flipped out on me. She just gives me this bit of attitude and tells me, "Oh well they're with my dad now because I packed them up." and then all of a sudden she starts acting really pissed off and starts yelling at my mom, "She was going to give me those books! She was going to sell them to me! She's harassing me about them now!" and then she just yells at me to "Grow up!" Really? Lol, wtf? I didn't WANT to piss her off, and I WASN'T trying to at all. I actually couldn't even talk to her the day she got here because I'm now too afraid to talk to her because she's like a ticking time bomb all the time. Freaking christ.

...All over books. Seriously, this is retarded. I'm not even trying to make a humongous deal about it. The only reason I wanted them back a little more than usual is because 1) They're college textbooks I bought new and they're in pretty good condition and 2) I need money for school, and in general, and I was going to sell them.
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Yikes! I could see if you gave her an attuide but you just asked for your things back. I hate lending books out. People never give my books back! How old is she? I wouldn't be too upset about it, she seems like she really over reacted. lol, I would probably get my mom involved cause I hate confrontation & you did ask nicely. I hope you get your books back though.
 
DeadmanWalking

DeadmanWalking

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Phoenixx said:
Pissed, yet for some reason somewhat amused. My cousin was packing up the rest of her things to leave today. I finally just got a chance to ask her, "Hey, do you still have my yoga book? I think you also borrowed a college handbook thing from me too." That's all I asked. What happened? She completely flipped out on me. She just gives me this bit of attitude and tells me, "Oh well they're with my dad now because I packed them up." and then all of a sudden she starts acting really pissed off and starts yelling at my mom, "She was going to give me those books! She was going to sell them to me! She's harassing me about them now!" and then she just yells at me to "Grow up!" Really? Lol, wtf? I didn't WANT to piss her off, and I WASN'T trying to at all. I actually couldn't even talk to her the day she got here because I'm now too afraid to talk to her because she's like a ticking time bomb all the time. Freaking christ.

...All over books. Seriously, this is retarded. I'm not even trying to make a humongous deal about it. The only reason I wanted them back a little more than usual is because 1) They're college textbooks I bought new and they're in pretty good condition and 2) I need money for school, and in general, and I was going to sell them.
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Mayhaps she isn't someone you should make a habit of talking to. Find a proxy for her, like her parents.
 
Phoenixx

Phoenixx

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shakethelight said:
Yikes! I could see if you gave her an attuide but you just asked for your things back. I hate lending books out. People never give my books back! How old is she? I wouldn't be too upset about it, she seems like she really over reacted. lol, I would probably get my mom involved cause I hate confrontation & you did ask nicely. I hope you get your books back though.
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^ Yeah my mom saw the whole ordeal. She actually sent me to my room, lol. Not because I was in trouble, just to sort it out. After her attitude though, I was giving it back, but my mom's just like, "Go to your room" you know, before a whole argument broke out between us, yet again. Not the first time she's treated me like that. And by the way, she's 30.

She's gone now. All it took was that outburst and she packed up her car so fast, she left back to her parent's house without even saying goodbye. Just gave us both an attitude and left. Whatever. I'm tired of dealing with her.
 
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Srijita52

Srijita52

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Phoenixx said:
Pissed, yet for some reason somewhat amused. My cousin was packing up the rest of her things to leave today. I finally just got a chance to ask her, "Hey, do you still have my yoga book? I think you also borrowed a college handbook thing from me too." That's all I asked. What happened? She completely flipped out on me. She just gives me this bit of attitude and tells me, "Oh well they're with my dad now because I packed them up." and then all of a sudden she starts acting really pissed off and starts yelling at my mom, "She was going to give me those books! She was going to sell them to me! She's harassing me about them now!" and then she just yells at me to "Grow up!" Really? Lol, wtf? I didn't WANT to piss her off, and I WASN'T trying to at all. I actually couldn't even talk to her the day she got here because I'm now too afraid to talk to her because she's like a ticking time bomb all the time. Freaking christ.

...All over books. Seriously, this is retarded. I'm not even trying to make a humongous deal about it. The only reason I wanted them back a little more than usual is because 1) They're college textbooks I bought new and they're in pretty good condition and 2) I need money for school, and in general, and I was going to sell them.
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Seems like she's the one who needs to grow up. I'm sorry you had to go through it.
 
JuiceB

JuiceB

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Feeling really empty right about now after coming home from work.

Most of the guys I work with are pretty ignorant and not too bright in the head. But they all live their lives without the kinds of problems I do. It makes me envious seeing them but then I realise its not their fault but my own. I don't know. I'm just feeling really low right now.
 
DeadmanWalking

DeadmanWalking

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Tally_Lyra said:
I feel horrendous. This is probably one of the worst colds I've ever had. I can't do anything for long without feeling exhausted and very ill.

I feel sad too, I realized I've pretty much lost all my friends. Not due to falling out with them or anything, just lack of contact, and I just feel so lost lately so wouldn't know what to say to them.

Just a really bad day right now, I feel like death and I feel depressed, great combination.

I wish I had at least one really good friend...
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Why have one when you can have many? You've got us Tally:). Always have and always will.

I do hope that you feel better though.
 
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Foxface

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Tally_Lyra said:
I feel horrendous. This is probably one of the worst colds I've ever had. I can't do anything for long without feeling exhausted and very ill.
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Be outside a bit, eat chicken noodle soup and drink juice like Cranraspberry juice or BEEP (I think it's only made my Farmer's). Stay away from medication. I know people say that you are supposed to sleep a lot, but you are actually, supposed to be at some active. Being outside is the best. Don't be in an enviroment that is too warm, becuase germs live in the heat. So staying in one place for too long, such as your room, is not good.

My tongue is a little bit better then last night, but still sore.
 
EscapeArtist

EscapeArtist

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Tally_Lyra said:
I feel horrendous. This is probably one of the worst colds I've ever had. I can't do anything for long without feeling exhausted and very ill.

I feel sad too, I realized I've pretty much lost all my friends. Not due to falling out with them or anything, just lack of contact, and I just feel so lost lately so wouldn't know what to say to them.

Just a really bad day right now, I feel like death and I feel depressed, great combination.

I wish I had at least one really good friend...
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What do you think would happen if you contacted some of the people that you have lost contact with on facebook? Even people from 5 years ago will agree to catch up. I'm sorry to hear that you feel the way you do. You have friends on here thinking about you
 
Graeme1988

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Nervous as f**k! Got my second CBT appointment this afternoon. I don't what I'm gonnae say?! :confused: Probably gonnae be awkward. Since I haven't made any progress in the 3 weeks since my first session. ::(:
 
shakethelight

shakethelight

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Graeme1988 said:
Nervous as f**k! Got my second CBT appointment this afternoon. I don't what I'm gonnae say?! :confused: Probably gonnae be awkward. Since I haven't made any progress in the 3 weeks since my first session. ::(:
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Good luck! it takes some time. I am doing CBT as well and didn't start making ANY progess when I first started either.You WILL get there. Sending good vibes your way today.

Oh, it helps to write down what your feeling. Or things you would like to work on.
I hated the long pauses cause I usually had so much to say but would get "brain fog" once I sat down.
hope today goes well. Don't be nervous! Think of therapy like a spa day for the head :)
 
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