Guys: Ask Us Girls!
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just_shadows
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first of all - it is an AWESOME question, way to go on asking something that interesting!
i don't think it's a set point, but rather a collection of small things that makes you think the guy is not who you thought he was. (as you, not going to talk about breaches of rules).
anyways, i'll mention a few ^:
before i start - all those, imho, apply BOTH ways. i think that girls should treat their guys better as well :/ and can be SUCH asses sometimes.
also, not ALL those apply in ALL cases. every person is different, and those are just some thoughts on the matter. don't expect them to apply in all cases.
* not taking her side in things around other people, EXPECIALLY if she seems to be NOT on the winning side, especially if it is with people that usually put her down - like family in some cases, friends in others.
* constantly showing her, sometimes subtly, (and usually withought intention :/ ) that she's incapable of doing certain things. basically - again, you are supposed to believe in her and back her up.
* letting her understand that once you got her - she's no longer interesting, and that you won't do anything to keep her interest. - do something out of ordinary every so long, (be it just flowers delivered to her workplace, or a date somewhere special).
and about money - i'll mention this. unless your girls is... please forgive my french, a demanding divalike person, she won't expect you to shell out large amounts of cash. you can go a long way with a little, just keep it creative and interesting.
* being too easy. she should never feel that you are just a toy, or that you will be there no matter what. you should LOVE her no matter what, but there is a difference. you should always respect yourself just as you respect her. if a man is so easy that she can do whatever and he'll still stay with her - the guy is not that interesting anymore.
* sometimes - even not exercising. i can't stress this one enough. it shows you care about your health, and about your body. and well - every girl likes her guy (or geek in my case) to be prrrrrrty
lol it seems obvious, but you've no idea how much this can do for ya * not being spontaneous. try stuff. for example - get her in the car on a holiday, and just drive SOMEWHERE, stop in every interesting place you see, and take your day at your pace.
and by GOD help her clean the house.
SHE'S NOT A MAID, DAMMIT XD
lol
ok - that's enough for now, i guess :/
Darker Than Black
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ok, I attached what I said to her, and ofcourse, she didn't respond so..w/e
I was having serious issues focusing on class ever since my friend started talking about girls...I couldn't stop think about her, which bothered me, F*k, annoying thoughts. Now we both deleted each other off MSN, that's good.
coming to a uni with ppl from my old high school wasn't exactly what I had in mind of starting clean. I get so anxious everytime I see ppl from my old high school, except for one or two, wh
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genius
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what time of the month is it?
what am i talking about!
what day is it?
i was sure you are going to ask about something like this
Pink_Paula
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That's confusing, sounds like she's playing games to me!
Maybe that's a good thing, when I reminded her about what she had said, she went silent, and I've heard nothing from her again.
genius
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maybe that means she was need you and you failed her
Pink_Paula
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I don't think that's what it is genius, it really sounds to me like she's playing games, or she's confused and doesn't know what she wants!
genius
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its possible because we dont know any details we need more details
Haha! The OP for this thread is great!!
Games or she's lonely.
This makes you sound like you've only dated bossy or domineering women? Every relationship I've been in was me not having the upper hand. I suppose I feel there should be no one with the "upper hand" anyways. If a guy/girl can't understand the terms of being equals that's a match that's probably not going to work. No one likes taking commands from anyone, even the people who tend to act like they do.
lunarla
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Hm, I'm not sure about the upper hand. But I have felt that I've had a bit more control and security with myself in the relationship. I was the one doing the reassuring. Now it feels like I'm just some whiny, jealous, nagging girl :
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I think someone of about equal intelligence would be best.
lunarla
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I don't really think this is something that is acknowledged so much. At least not for me. You just sort of tend to see what's good in the other person and their intelligence and admire that, and they do the same. So, it's kind of like, you think they're more intelligent, and they think you are sort of. That's how it is for me anyway. And I like that because I feel like I can be shown many things that I don't know about. Everyone is intelligent in their own areas. I like to be able to be shown new things that I didn't know before. Or I like to be told something from a different perspective.
Ooohhh sick burn!
I can come up with some questions but from what I've read so far in this thread they would be quite the departure since almost all the questions so far relate to how to have sex with females.
That's important of course but I want to know about how your brains really work. Is it really all about emotions or not? Do your lives revolve around emotional fulfillment, yes or no? Hopefully you are self-aware enough to know the correct answer.
Also, do your entire lives revolve around how everything "makes you feel"?. Is there any thought or brain activity or motivation outside of this?
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These responses seem naive to me. I think the women in this thread might be playing stupid or they are completely oblivious of those around them. In a man's mind when he is walking along and catches something like that it is always an invitation to look at the very least. This is ingrained, or hard-wired into our brains. There is nothing we can do about it. That's why we are so shocked to see a surprised reaction from a woman when they realize they have attracted our attention.
I wish I could come up with a fitting analogy to describe it. Maybe this one will work. It would be the equivalent for a woman to see a guy who is tall, handsome, confident and dressed well with perfect teeth who just knocked out 3 assailants, drives a Bentley and works in a position of power of some sort like a politician and also is sensitive and not afraid to show his emotions. This level of attraction is what men experience when they look over and see a woman advertising her body. And despite what any women in this thread say, on some level all women know this and that is why they do it.
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