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Guys: Ask Us Girls!

Started by Riiya · Feb 18, 2009 · 251 replies

#181
Luke1993 said: ↑
Would you girls rather be more intelligent than your partners or vice versa?


I think guys who are a lot more intelligent than me are intimidating. But its hard to imagine 2 people in a relaitionship where one person is more intelligent when it comes to everything. I think if one person is an extreme smarty pants and a "know it all" I cant imagine having a good relationship with them. I'm pretty stupid when it comes to politics, math, history and a lot of other stuff.. i dont think that would make me less intelligent if my bf knew everything about those things... maybe he could even teach me about some of it. There are other things I know more about than he does. That's part of being in a relationship I think, having slight differences and interests so we could learn from eachother.

So to answer your question, I think it would be best if we were equal. Knowing more about different things is ok..
#182
genius said: ↑
what are the specifications you like to be in the guy ?

what is important for you personality or good looking ?

do you Preferre sexual relationships before marrage and why ?

how can a guy know if a girl in love with him or not without she say ?


- a hot tan man with buns of steel... j/k 😉 Im actually not sure about this one! I really try to not be too picky. I know what I dont like though!.. loud, obnoxious, arrogance, immaturity, takes life and himself too seriously... stuff like that is a big turn off.

- personality for sure!

- I dont mind sex before marriage. I think it would be nice and make it more special to wait for marriage, but im not sure if I personally would like to wait.. If my bf wanted to wait then he better put a ring on it soon 😛

- I cant really answer this one. Ive only been in love once, and I think it was pretty obvious to my bf that I did love him without having to say it. Same with him loving me without having to tell me. Maybe by the way she looks at you, things she says.. calls you a lot, sends text, is very playful with you all the time. But really, it just depends on the girl. Hopefully if she loves you she will just tell you =)
#183
Luke1993 said: ↑
Would you girls rather be more intelligent than your partners or vice versa?

Hubby happens to be more intelligent than me, and I like it that way. Not sure why....just do.
#184
Do you girls think when a man cries it's a bad thing? I've cried only once over the past few years at a party years ago over a girl and obviously it didn't garner a good response and I was drunker than I'd ever been so I don't know if that counts anyway but if a man cried do you think it's pathetic?
#185
206Raider said: ↑
Do you girls think when a man cries it's a bad thing? I've cried only once over the past few years at a party years ago over a girl and obviously it didn't garner a good response and I was drunker than I'd ever been so I don't know if that counts anyway but if a man cried do you think it's pathetic?

If he's a cry baby I think it's a bad thing, lol. But I think it's great when a man can cry when something is really, really sad. It shows emotion, love, humilty, etc.
#186
Of course, lol I never cry about anything really, and I had alcohol poisoning that night so it's not really being emotional, I've just always wondered what a girl thinks about that. I actually have trouble crying, I wanted to cry when my granpa died a couple years back but never could.
#187
Emily_G said: ↑
If he's a cry baby I think it's a bad thing, lol. But I think it's great when a man can cry when something is really, really sad. It shows emotion, love, humilty, etc.

Or when something is really, really happy I guess. Both my hubby and my dad cried at my wedding, it was nice 😀

206, I don't think that night counts..lol. But I don't know of any girl who sees a man crying as him being weak if that's what you're asking.
#188
206Raider said: ↑
Do you girls think when a man cries it's a bad thing? I've cried only once over the past few years at a party years ago over a girl and obviously it didn't garner a good response and I was drunker than I'd ever been so I don't know if that counts anyway but if a man cried do you think it's pathetic?

I dont think its a bad thing at all. I would hope that he wasnt as big of a cry baby as I am! That wouldnt exactly be a huge turn off though. A man who can show his vulnerable side and cry is great =)
#189
206Raider said: ↑
Do you girls think when a man cries it's a bad thing? I've cried only once over the past few years at a party years ago over a girl and obviously it didn't garner a good response and I was drunker than I'd ever been so I don't know if that counts anyway but if a man cried do you think it's pathetic?

I wouldn't worry about it, I even cried watching the lion king 😀 (the bit where his dad dies)
#190
Celephaïs said: ↑
Does childbirth freak some woman out as much as does me?

The mental picture makes me a bit well, squeamish.

I couldn't imagine passing out a kidney stone the size of a coconut.

Yeah i know it doesn't come out of the urethra, I figured I'd say it to accentuate the pain
heck yes!!!... i think I might pass on that one.
#191
I have a deep rooted hatred/bitterness towards women.

it's unwanted and I feel bad about it sometimes
#192
Spike Lee said: ↑
I have a deep rooted hatred/bitterness towards women.

it's unwanted and I feel bad about it sometimes

I have the same.
#193
lunarla said: ↑
I have the same.

aren't you a wimminz?
#194
Spike Lee said: ↑
aren't you a wimminz?

Yup, I amz! I just have this awful fixed perception of women.
#195
lunarla said: ↑
Yup, I amz! I just have this awful fixed perception of women.

I hate men too...

Mainly because they're all cocky, oversexed, loud and irrational.

but not as much as I hate women
#196
Spike Lee said: ↑
I hate men too...

Mainly because they're all cocky, oversexed, loud and irrational.

but not as much as I hate women

I don't necessarily hate them, I'm just very skeptical of them. A lot of distrust! Probably has a lot to do with feeling threatened by them too, etc.
#197
lunarla said: ↑
I don't necessarily hate them, I'm just very skeptical of them. A lot of distrust! Probably has a lot to do with feeling threatened by them too, etc.

I mainly hate women because they're pretty and have vaginas.... and also because I don't have a g/f
#198
Spike Lee said: ↑
I mainly hate women because they're pretty and have vaginas.... and also because I don't have a g/f


Well, then you don't really hate them you just hate that you don't have the company of one!
#199
206Raider said: ↑
Do you girls think when a man cries it's a bad thing? I've cried only once over the past few years at a party years ago over a girl and obviously it didn't garner a good response and I was drunker than I'd ever been so I don't know if that counts anyway but if a man cried do you think it's pathetic?

It's not a bad thing at all! 🙂 Infact, i really love it when a man shows emotion like that. I feel abit threatend by men who never show emotion, i think it's because i'm a very emotional person lol and feel much more comfortable around other people really in touch with there emotions. To me, a man who is not afraid to show emotion is strong and not pathetic at all!
#200
Spike Lee said: ↑
I mainly hate women because they're pretty and have vaginas....

That's my two favourite parts!...apart from their lovely personalities of course 😉

I cry at the occasional film but probably not the ones most ppl do. The last time I did was when I watched "Shallow Hal" when he gets the "curse" off him and see's the kids in the hospital the way they really are. Dunno, some stuff just gets me

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