i feel that way all the time.. i've only recently realized that my insecurities about my physical appearance are definitely the cause for me constantly pushing guys away, & with those guys, i push away my chance to be happy. but i just can't seem to do anything about it, i can't even imagine that the things i hate about myself would be the things that a guy wouldn't mind. like my "wobbly bits" for example.. i don't consider myself to be "fat" or big, but those little spots on my stomach or on my legs, my arms, etc? they destroy me. that's why i mainly stay in during the summer, i don't feel like i look decent enough in a swim suit.. so the thought of actually letting any guy see me naked? it terrifies me. but sometimes i really do wonder, if a person truly cares about you, would they see all the flaws in you as ugly? or even unattractive?