Feel too unattractive for love?

Jake123

Jake123

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I've completely given up on love, I don't even want it anymore, but anyway... I used to have a thing where I could only be with guys who I felt were levels below me in attractiveness, because it made me feel "superior" I guess. I couldn't be with guys who I thought were hotter than me, even when I had opportunities, because I wouldn't feel worthy. So basically, I like people who are uglier than me.

I don't care about appearance at all, except when I find them to be more attractive than me, in which case it's actually a turn off. Weird, I know. I'm glad I finally accepted being alone and becoming asexual.
 
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AGR

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Yes its one of the reasons I dont have a girlfriend,I had girls liking me,but I am sure if they looked at me close up they would think I am hideous or I think somehow they will realise I am ****ing ugly,I see all the guys around here,they all look good,lots of friends,look tough,confident and I am sure if push comes to shove they could protect her,how can I compete with that?

I see all those guys with dozens of diferent girls and I want only one ::(: ,but I guess its something I will never have.
 
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KiaraBlue

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Adriano said:
Yes its one of the reasons I dont have a girlfriend,I had girls liking me,but I am sure if they looked at me close up they would think I am hideous or I think somehow they will realise I am ****ing ugly,I see all the guys around here,they all look good,lots of friends,look tough,confident and I am sure if push comes to shove they could protect her,how can I compete with that?

I see all those guys with dozens of diferent girls and I want only one ::(: ,but I guess its something I will never have.
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Is this you on this profile picture? Because if you are, I don't see where the problem is. :)
 
mrb

mrb

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its whats inside trust me on that 1 ........ here speaks the voice of Experience .. of course there has to be a little attraction to the other ... but its how you get on.
 
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Sevan

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I was born with a cleft lip. I've always been very insecure about it, especially when I see myself in pictures. This combined with my social anxiety has caused me a lot of distress. It's a heavy feeling to walk around with.
 
Untamed88

Untamed88

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I am scared I will always be alone. I want to fall in love and get married but I am far to withdrawn from everyone, far to shy and a lot of people dismiss me as a freak.
 
lyricalliaisons

lyricalliaisons

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Though I'm certainly no model, I don't think I'm unattractive. I think I'm pretty, actually, but that doesn't make it any more likely that I'll ever find love or be in a relationship.
 
very_shy

very_shy

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When thinking of love, yes I do feel firstly, that I am physically unattractive. Secondly, I say, well, maybe you do have some inner beauty. I think of some positive things of mine, but always end up with a thought that all the good things I feel I posess inside, the girl/woman would use against me, with me being just "a good boy" with whom everyone can play around and do whatever (s)he wants.

When I am in a especially bad mood (luckily,not at the moment), I always say I will write my own BA thesis of 100 pages why I am unsuitable for love. :rolleyes:
 
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rayray

rayray

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Not sure if i have posted here already,hehe,but these days i dont really care what life will bring to me,maybe I'll be single,maybe I won't,who knows ,I'll just wait for it,it's ok. :p
 
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userremoved

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anxiousguy83 said:
I believe there is someone for everyone :)
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I think what it comes down to is plain luck. There's a lot of people in this world and if you're a unique kind of person consider yourself very lucky if you cross paths with that compatible person.
 
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klytus

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I believe there is someone for everyone
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The existence of such a person does not mean in any way that you will meet him/her, not to mention that you will get into a romantic relationship with him/her. So, it's a virtually useless comment. Sure, there may be someone out there, for me. How's that going to help? It won't. I first have to meet that girl, and then I have to manage to somehow make her feel attracted to me, or to avoid being "just friends".
 
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