I was wondering how many other people here have phone anxiety, and to what degree? What do you do to cope with this? It can be pretty debilitating. Communicating through phones and texts is such a significant part of our society these days, it's a key form of socialization. Any tips on how to be less nervous about this stuff? I'm sure a lot of people here suffer from this thing. I'm also curious what people fear more, calling or texting?
For me answering any calls is dreadful in itself, but having to call back when someone leaves me a message is utterly panic inducing. I'll actually have panic attacks over having to call people back, pretty ridiculous I know. Not that I get calls very often or anything, but when I do I just freak! Especially if it's something related to job searching, which is what I'm currently in the process of doing. Texts are bad too, but to a lesser degree. Even then, I have to put such an extensive amount of time and effort in finding the right words to say. It's overaпalyzing at its finest. I don't have friends so I worry less about that, but when acquaintances or people I just met text/call me I ignore them such a large portion of the time. I feel terrible for that, but it often seems better than inducing a state of panic. I also have an extreme fear of initiation of any kind. I will NEVER be the first person to call or message someone. This avoidant behavior has sucked me into such an intense place of loneliness, hopelessness and fear. Not just due to phone anxiety, but all this nonsense added together. I want to get over some of these ridiculously irrational fears. I'm tired of avoiding every little thing and panicking constantly.
For me answering any calls is dreadful in itself, but having to call back when someone leaves me a message is utterly panic inducing. I'll actually have panic attacks over having to call people back, pretty ridiculous I know. Not that I get calls very often or anything, but when I do I just freak! Especially if it's something related to job searching, which is what I'm currently in the process of doing. Texts are bad too, but to a lesser degree. Even then, I have to put such an extensive amount of time and effort in finding the right words to say. It's overaпalyzing at its finest. I don't have friends so I worry less about that, but when acquaintances or people I just met text/call me I ignore them such a large portion of the time. I feel terrible for that, but it often seems better than inducing a state of panic. I also have an extreme fear of initiation of any kind. I will NEVER be the first person to call or message someone. This avoidant behavior has sucked me into such an intense place of loneliness, hopelessness and fear. Not just due to phone anxiety, but all this nonsense added together. I want to get over some of these ridiculously irrational fears. I'm tired of avoiding every little thing and panicking constantly.