Do you hate yourself?

vj288

not actually Fiona Apple
At one point the answer to this question was very much a yes. I used to have such a strong feeling of hate toward myself, and it completely engulfed my life. I wouldn't be the person I am today if I didn't hate myself so much back then. A lot of the way I think and feel about myself today are the result of all that hate, and it's hard to shake even though the hate itself is gone, for the most part. I wouldn't say I hate myself today though, overall at least. I have my days.
 

Shyangel

Well-known member
Frankly, as much as I try to deny it, I do hate myself. I can't figure out who I am. It seems no matter who that person is she doesn't fit in. All I want is to be in a social situation and not make an idiot of myself and actually make friends...Maybe one day.
 

GhastlyCC

Well-known member
Hrm,
I hate some of the choices I've made.
Want to kick my own ass for them.
I wish I could make my parents proud of me and fear I never will.
But....I think i'm an alright person...I mean..I've never hurt anybody.
As long as I die having made the world or anybody's life no worse than before...I'll be happy with myself.
No better(Though I wouldn't mind this one ::p:) no worse.
Just fade away as if I never existed.
Not competent as a human being or simply good enough to make anybody happy.
Not quite a piece of ****.
Living in the grey.
 

totoro

Well-known member
There are certainly many qualities which I hate about myself (I could easily list 100 things) but I'm not sure if I can say I hate myself entirely. I'm more unhappy with myself and unhappy with my life. Often I wish I was somebody else- anybody else; but at the same time I know there are people in a worse situation than me so I should appreciate what I have.
 

Nanita

Well-known member
Kind of. Sometimes. Hmm I don´t know. Probably dont hate myself, its a little extreme. But Im tired of and can´t stand myself.
 

Fembot

Member
I think at one time I did, but it's really just a waste of time and energy. It gets you nowhere. Loving yourself is much more beneficial.
 

GillyMarie

Active member
A lot of the time, I don't particularly like myself that much.. I feel weird, odd abnormal, and freaky. I am constantly in battle with my mind, that I have a condition or many I should say. And try to stop beating myself up so much... I live in the hope, that I will be at peace with myself one day. One fine day!:confused:
 

Shyangel

Well-known member
A lot of the time, I don't particularly like myself that much.. I feel weird, odd abnormal, and freaky. I am constantly in battle with my mind, that I have a condition or many I should say. And try to stop beating myself up so much... I live in the hope, that I will be at peace with myself one day. One fine day!:confused:

That's very much how I feel to, Gilly.
I'm sure your will find it one day, just keep searching.:)
 
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GillyMarie

Active member
Thank you Shyangel, And I hope you find that fine day as well. As well as everyone else on this forum.... God knows we deserve it!! The hope is the only thing that keeps me going. :)
 

goldold

Active member
No, I don't hate myself at all:) I have good health and other necessary stuff.
I blame civilization for making you all feel bad. You just have to get over it.
 
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