Do you feel like girls aren't attracted to you because of your size?

[freestylemonster]

I'm short and skinny. I always have been. I look in the mirror and I think I'm at least decent looking but it seems that girls don't think the same...Is it my size?? I'm thinking that biologically we're like gorillas: The strongest man gets the girl. Problem is I have a tiny appetite so I remain skinny. I'll attach a couple pics of me so you can decide - I'm 5'6" and 140lbs by the way..

I'm in the middle

 

[pebblesdundee]

I'm like this, except I have a massive appetite. That's a thousand times more frustrating, because it feels like I have no way to gain weight

 

[Kiwong]

Skinny isn't a bad way to be. Better than being unift and overweight, purely for health reasons.

 

[AGR]

dude depends on the girl,try being 5'6 and 90 kg(not all is muscle) like me,I actually think girls like thin guys more,depends on the location,the girls.

 

[WeirdyMcGee]

I guess I wouldn't know because I'm not attracted to anyone but I'm trying to stick to the theory that 'if you love yourself, other people will too.'

If you can like what you see in the mirror and feel confident about it, there are bound to be other people who see that confidence and are attracted to it.

 

[doubleM]

well im 6'4 250 and they all seem to be repelled by me.

 

[Mickery]

There's nothing wrong with your appearance. I think girls do, generally, rate height in a male. Which leaves what, the thousands that don't?

Thousands of women. Hold that thought and enjoy it.

 

[TheSanctuarian]

I am a tall, and slim male. And I attract more male attention than female, it's very frustrating.

 

[kilojoule]

NONSENSE! The only women who are going to be weird about men's size are the ones that have insecurity about their own size. Women are most attracted to personality and it is a personality that sustains a relationship. I know for me that's true anyway, I'm just a little under 5'10 and I am an absolute sucker for confident (not cocky) charming men. In fact the guy I see now is about 5'6 or maybe 5'7. Height has absolutely no relevance in todays society. Here are some examples.


And before you say oh that's just because those men are rich and successful, I deliberately chose couples whereby both parties are successful within their own right, so the women's only motivation to be with their partner..is their partner.

 

[Lowlight]

To me a skinnier guy if far more attractive than some muscle-bound hulk. The way all you skinny folk can be so lithe and lanky is really beautiful. I'm 6' 4 and 280 lbs so I am off the charts when it comes to being a smallish big guy (not fat enough to be morbidly obese, but big enough to be a lunk). The only saving grace for me being big was that I didn't get bullied that much in school. People would make the occasional fat joke, but I was big enough to where I could become a problem for someone.

So skinny people don't beat yourselves up. You do look attractive to people.

 

[ridicule]

First of all, realize that girls are people too, just like guys, and they are probably more varied in tastes than we are. I've seen every type of guy with every type of girl, what some girl will like, another will hate. But the one thing that matters more than height, weight, physical attractiveness, or even personality is confidence. If you have a commanding presence, you will get one.

 

[dark1979]

if you love yourself, other
people will too

 

[Newtype]

I'm 5'10 and it sucks because all the pretty girls want guys that are at least 6 foot tall and the pretty girls at skool are always with guys that are taller than me.

 

[TheSanctuarian]

I'm 5'10 and it sucks because all the pretty girls want guys that are at least 6 foot tall and the pretty girls at skool are always with guys that are taller than me.

Im only 5'11.5

 

[Sial Axetder]

well im 6'4 250 and they all seem to be repelled by me.

Impressive. 4 inches above me. I am not used to looking up to speak. It is slightly amusing to think about.

They are not repelled simply by appearance alone. It is how you are that is repelling. You act approachable? You enjoy being you? Seems an ambiguous impossibility to reach out and enjoy one's self while being open and open minded. All to simply gain the acceptance of the desire. HAha, the dreadful vulnerabilities of being human.

 

[kilojoule]

Oh for the love of God, it's like some of you are actually enjoying being miserable about this and deliberately ignoring what I posted to dismiss this nonsense. ITS NOT TRUE. Woman like men for a variety of reasons and I have to say vanity does not rate high on that list at all. so get over it. No woman wants to go out with a guy who spends more time looking in the mirror than she does. women have insecurities too, actually for the most part, women are a LOT worse. I have a friend who is absolutely paranoid, utterly obsessive that everybody is staring at her fat ankles despite the fact shes teeny tiny. I fear for her that one of these days she'll turn sideways and disappear into thin air!


And so I conclude YOU'RE BEING RIDICULOUS males and females. Big, small, short, tall whatever, we'll all be old and wrinkly someday. It's about personality, I for one do not one to go out with somebody who goes on and on about what's wrong with their appearance and criticises every feature they have. That is what would put me off more than any physical feature. Start to love yourself. If you can't stand you, why would you expect anybody else to? Start looking for something that you like about yourself in your appearance, It's not conceited to like something about yourself, so I challenge you no more whinging, post something you like about yourself.

 

[coyote]

‪Randy Newman - Short People‬‏ - YouTube

 

[kilojoule]

You want short?

'

It doesn't seem to bother him.

And what if he comes on here? Are you going to find a picture of someone shorter than him to make him feel better? hahaha c'mon ppl height is not the issue, looks are not the issue, weight is not the issue. Retrain your brains. What do you like about yourself?

 

[Rembrandt Broam]

Well Tyrion Lannister always seems to do OK with the ladies. ::

 

[Newtype]

Well Tyrion Lannister always seems to do OK with the ladies. ::

That's 'cause he pays them...