The whole point is that bigger bust size is not necessarily 'prettier' neither is a smaller bust size. Different men find different things attractive.
Large boobs are what people are taught is pretty in the societies of western developed nations. Not sure whether it's that way in other societies too, I can only tell of those I've spend a lot of time in. Sure, not all people think that, but the majority does. Because the society tells them that. That's why, for example, ads that are supposed to be sexy and target men have nearly always women with large boobs in them. Or that's why garments that make your boobs look bigger are more popular t han garments that make your boobs look smaller. Because big boobs is what people are told is pretty. And that's what most people believe.
Anyway if you read the post by the op (the second one) she clearly states she's not considering a massive increase, just a small increase to give her more confidence.
If I'd be female and would want a breast that is slightly larger, I'd wear clothing that gives me that feeling, instead of taking the risk that comes along with breast implants (think about the one story last year, where a company selling breast implants got bancrupt because they used super cheap filler material, selling it as high quality stuff, that turned out to be dangerous for the people who got that implanted). Not to mention the money involved. That's of course just me. I just think if someone wants a beauty surgery, then they should have it because they are severely depressed because of their current looks and have no way other way to change that. Instead of getting the surgery in the hopes of it having any serious impact on how long a relationship lasts.
You somehow manage to insult women with big boobs and women with small boobs at the same time
I don't want to insult anyone. If I do, I apologize. I just feel strongly about certain subjects, and like to express my opinion in that matter. I guess that english ain't my native language, and that on the internet we lack mimics, gestures and accentuation, increases the risk of misunderstandings.
I think it's sad that someone says that she doesn't like herself because she got small boobs. Because that's just in the head. It's perfectly normal that some woman got large boobs and some woman got small boobs. The problem is not the body, it's the way a person perceives himself/herself.
That's why I also think it's sad that so many people get so many weird beauty surgeries. Like men getting chin implants to make it look more defined, people getting their legs broken and stretched to be taller, having their ****** butchered up to have it look like the one of certain porn actresses. I also think it sends the wrong signal. Imagine a young daughter asking her father: "where is mommy", and he says "in the hospital". The child asks "why", father says "because she gets larger boobs". The daughter asks "why" and the father replies "because small boobs are ****ing ugly, so she gets her chest sliced open and gel packs slid into her body so that she can't sleep on her belly anymore and has problems doing sports and whatever, but she'll have hugeass tits so that'll be an improvement". What will the child learn of that? How will she perceive herself when she grows up? Of course this is an exaggeration, but toned down that happens more and more often.
But then again: I think that we all live only once, that we all deserve to be happy, and that everybody should be able to do what he/she desires to be happy, as long as this doesn't involve hurting anybody else. Whether that is polygamy, certain fetishes, collecting expensive cars, buying and burning books. I don't care. It's their lifes. But when I'm asked, I share my opinion.
All this "we have to look exactly the same, like the current beauty model" is just... weird. It reminds me on a story by Stanislav Lem, about a society where any sort of individuality has been completely removed from a society.
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