Hi, I'd like to ask you a question. First of all, I'm the kinda girl you will automatically hate on sight. Though I am not a girly-girly, I do dress and do my hair, like something out of a Kate Spade add. I love makeup and enjoy being a girl. I work in a corporate office atmosphere and I get the "on-sight" sneers/hate look. It hurts. It may appear that I am vain, a clothes horse or whatever, but really that's not who I am inside. I'm actually a nerd, a book worm and know exactly who I am. I'm confident but am human. To be judged and not to be liked by my "looks" isn't fair. You know? Your comment on the topic "Why don't other women like me" got my attention. I'm on this site to try and understand is all. I befriend anyone. Regardless of what they look like. I don't talk about clothes, or anything materialistic, I want to talk about books, music, different countries, relationships, feelings..LIFE! So my question is: Do you suppose you could look beyond the cover and read what's inside??