Am I the only one here who doesn't find themselves unattractive?
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Aussie_Lad
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I don't claim to be the best looking man on earth, but I am happy with my appearance.
1) Takes no effort to stay thin. Not everyone likes thin men, but I am more than happy with my weight.
2) Look young for my age. That way I have a greater range of options when it comes to woman as I won't feel like a pedo if I choose to date someone a lot younger than myself.
1) Takes no effort to stay thin. Not everyone likes thin men, but I am more than happy with my weight.
2) Look young for my age. That way I have a greater range of options when it comes to woman as I won't feel like a pedo if I choose to date someone a lot younger than myself.
I know that other people find me attractive because I get complimented on my appearance almost daily. However, that doesn't stop me from feeling very self-conscious and insecure about my appearance. I look in the mirror and hate what I see, but I'm reasonable enough to recognise that what I see isn't what others see so I don't go around whining about how ugly I am unless I'm on a really big downer.
alspacka
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I'm far from pleased with my looks, but I acknowledge my potential so that's a start(coming from me that's a lot of progress).
The thing that weighs most heavily on my mind is my anorexic appearance. I only weigh 49kg and I'm about 1m77. I feel like such a stick figure.
Not to mention the effect it has on my day to day life, even the smallest physical effort can leave me breathless.
I've a bit of an eating disorder, I don't really trust food (does that sound crazy?).
Most probably a consequence of my extremely premature birth.
The thing that weighs most heavily on my mind is my anorexic appearance. I only weigh 49kg and I'm about 1m77. I feel like such a stick figure.
Not to mention the effect it has on my day to day life, even the smallest physical effort can leave me breathless.
I've a bit of an eating disorder, I don't really trust food (does that sound crazy?).
Most probably a consequence of my extremely premature birth.
Didn't see one here so I'll bite:
'Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?'
fitftw
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I am very tempted to post some man-porn...lol. I mean a topless picture of me. But I'll be nice and avoid the moaning and groaning that will no doubt sprout forth from doing that.
I 'know' I'm attractive - a lot of very attractive girls stare at me and sometimes get all shy when I look at them... but due to my social anxiety, I just don't feel attractive... and I don't think I'm attractive... I think I'm ugly... it's just the way that I have always felt... there must be a reason why people were dicks to me right? I'm ugly, with no personality and stupid.... Yeah that's my thinking... even though I 'know' it's incorrect, my ****ing broken brain can't help it. :/
seafolly
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Yes sirrrr....
Welcome to the club we've.... ugh, sorry it's the only joke I have . Cut me a break, I have social anxiety.... ::Sometimes I wish I was gay... at least then I'd have an excuse for being single lol... perhaps I'd get laid more too... scary thought, but it's really come to that
GhoulsNightOut
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I think if it weren't for my somewhat oily/acne-prone complexion, I'd feel attractive everyday. I still get some acne on my back and even a bit on my chest, it makes me feel disgusting to be looked at.
Other than that, I'm fine with my body shape and height even (I'm 21 and a mere 5' 2"!) So on most days, I feel average. Some days I feel like the most hideous, undesirable thing in the world, and there are few days where I feel attractive....
Other than that, I'm fine with my body shape and height even (I'm 21 and a mere 5' 2"!) So on most days, I feel average. Some days I feel like the most hideous, undesirable thing in the world, and there are few days where I feel attractive....
Helmaninquiel
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Sometimes I feel Ugly, and sometimes I'm fine with the way I look.. What really gets me is the lighting change. I'm all ways paranoid that I'm going to look good in one type of lighting and look completely hideous in another lighting. Lol yea I'm weird. ^^
Allright we can be twins, but I'm the more attractive, bigger, more aggresive one, allright? :
:Yeah, I never thought I would wish to be gay, but it would certainly make things easier for me right now... like you said
That's good man. As soon as that acne is gone, you'll be good to go
. For most people, acne is only temporary... I haven't had it since I was 18 I think 
lunaticbinge
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My self image is always changing. One day i'll think i'm mediocre looking. The next I think i'm George god damn Clooney. The day after i'll think i'm a monstrosity. It can get pretty maddening.