All the things you hate about yourself.

[Helmaninquiel]

I've made this thread so you can release yourself of all the things that bother you about being you. I know that sometimes I just hate being the person I am and need to release my problem to someone, I usually turn to my best friend or my mom but not everyone is that lucky. So this thead to do exactly that.
I'll start.

Physical appearance:
I hate my teeth, I wish they were more straight.
I hate my my legs I wish they were smallier.
I sometime wish I didn't have as thick as hair
as I do, it gives me headachs and can be hard
to style.
I wish that my lips were more plump. I hate thin lips.
and I wish that I didn't have size ten shoes.

I wish that I had more courage.
I sometimes hate that I'm so open and honest. People sometimes think they can take adavage of me.
I hate that I can be so exploisive, it's as if I can't hold in my anger and I hate it. People sometimes look at me funny but I can't help it.
I hate that I can't live a normal life cause of all the issues I have.
I hate how I push everyone away that tries to get near me.
I hate how much anxiety I get around people sometimes.
I hate how sometimes I can't even leave my house.
I hate how much medication I'm on, and I hate how it's not working.
I hate how I dislike everyone around me cause I dislike myself.

- You know maybe this was a stupid thread, I shouldn't really be asking for your negative thoughts but positive. If anyone wants me to delete then just tell me.

 

[doubtmyself]

I'm exhausted just after reading your post!
Take it easy on yourself. Take a vacation from your mind!

 

[Helmaninquiel]

I'm exhausted just after reading your post!
Take it easy on yourself. Take a vacation from your mind!

Oh you have no idea. lol

 

[doubtmyself]

OK then I'll try.

I hate the way I brush my teeth.
I hate the way I hate myself.
I hate the way I vacuum the lounge room.
I hate the way I post.
I hate the way to work. I need to take a different route.
I hate the way I eat brussel sprouts.
I hate the way I withdraw cash out of an ATM.
I hate the way women try to steal me from my partner.
I hate the way I play monopoly.

 

[Helmaninquiel]

OK then I'll try.

I hate the way I brush my teeth.
I hate the way I hate myself.
I hate the way I vacuum the lounge room.
I hate the way I post.
I hate the way to work. I need to take a different route.
I hate the way I eat brussel sprouts.
I hate the way I withdraw cash out of an ATM.
I hate the way women try to steal me from my partner.
I hate the way I play monopoly.

Sounds like I'm not the only one who needs a vacation. lol

 

[Helmaninquiel]

i find openess and honesty to be the absolute most attractive trait someone can possess and it is such a rare thing to come by. its also what im striving to be. kudos to you!

You just have to be true to yourself and others.
It takes some work and at times you just want to give up
but you don't cause then you wouldn't be you.

 

[Sprunk]

I hate that i don't know how to be happy

 

[doubtmyself]

Sounds like I'm not the only one who needs a vacation. lol

Yeah but I was only joking.

 

[KiaKaha]

I hate that people cant see who I really am
I hate that I dont feel comfortable with myself
I hate how I am percieved as grumpy, serious and unfriendly, when I am really not at all - if people would bother they would see how much of a good friend I really can be
I hate my skinny body
I hate the way I walk
I hate losing my hair
I hate that I cant "do" anything
I hate that there is absolutely nothing special about me at all

But most of all... I really, REALLY hate being unconfident and shy.

 

[doubtmyself]

But most of all... I really, REALLY hate being unconfident and shy.

I understand exactly what you are saying.
Is there some way you can see the plusses, the positives?
Maybe in the long run you will be happier than the confident cool dudes.
I mean you might attract the "right person " for you because you are genuine. (as long as your expectations are not too high)

 

[Falkor]

I hate the word ´´I hate that I´´ ´´i hate that you´´..

I´d rather say

I wish I could... Or I´d better be..


I´d better be more confident
I´d better be less afraid
I´d better graduate school
I´d beter not avoid school too much
I´d better have a good talk with my therapist today
I´d wish I could go on Holiday to Canada this Summer
I´d better be stronger in the future so I can have a nice job
I´d better keep on improving myself as much as I can
You´d better accept me when times aren´t going so well, I have a strong will power.
You´d better be taking me the way I am, folks.

 

[Kiwong]

I feeling pretty low right now, so I'm not going to list the things I hate about myself to reinforce how bad I feel.

There are always plenty of critics to remind me, rather than descend into self criticism

 

[MikeyC]

I hate the word ´´I hate that I´´ ´´i hate that you´´..

I´d rather say

I wish I could... Or I´d better be..

That's a more positive spin on a negative thought. Well done.

I wish I could stick up for myself.
I wish I could say no more often.
I wish I could be depressed less often.
I wish I could have more confidence around girls.

 

[KiaKaha]

Oh yeah me too... I am joking as well...fyi...

*trips over carpet*

 

[Shyangel]

I wish I could be less bitchy.
I wish I could get more motivation.
I wish I was useful.
I wish I would enjoy myself more.
I wish that life wasn't so hard for me.
I wish I could go up and hug my dad.
I wish I wasn't so sensitive.
I wish I wasn't so weak.
I wish I was smart.
I wish I could be happy.
I wish I was better looking.
I wish people approved of me.

Okay, that's enough. lol

 

[Waybuloo]

This just encourages people to be self hating.

 

[Graeme1988]

I wish I could stick up for myself.
I wish I could say no more often.
I wish I could be depressed less often.
I wish I could have more confidence around girls.

^ All of these, as well as wishing I was more confident in myself

And I wish I could feel like less of an outsider all the time

I also wish that...

I didn't feel so inferior
I had a better, more positive perception of my body image
I could have a better relationship with both my parents.
I was a bit smarter
I wish I could be happier

 

[Phoenixx]

I hate the word ´´I hate that I´´ ´´i hate that you´´..

I´d rather say

I wish I could... Or I´d better be..

^ I like this positive spin.

I wish I had A LOT more confidence.
I wish I wasn't so afraid all the time.
I wish I could open up to the people closest to me.
I wish I wasn't constantly worried about what everyone thinks of me.
I wish I had the means to get therapy.
I wish I didn't hate my face as much as I do sometimes.
I wish I could get out on my own, start living my life the way I want to.

And at the moment I wish I had someone to hang out with. I'm feeling pretty lonely in the library.

 

[recluse]

I wish i wasn't moody (my mood changes throughout the day)
I wish i didn't dwell on negative thoughts, past events
I wish i was good looking
I wish i didn't have social anxiety
I wish i was assertive
I wish i was a good talker
I wish i was confident
I wish i had great self esteem

 

[chickenmaryjane]

I really hate the fact that I'm a people pleaser, that I can't say no to other people's demands, and my huge head.