All the things you hate about yourself.

jonas89

jonas89

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I hate how skinny I'm. which what Im working on for passed few months now.
I hate when I say yes to something that I want to say no to.
I hate the lack of confidence around women.

But Im trying my very best to fix those things right now :)
 
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DrsJacksonn

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About my appearance? I don't like the tall-and-skinny thing I have over me. I wish I were heavier. And lots of other things, but that's the most important.

And otherwise? Well, other than loathing myself for all the things I did wrong in the past, I'm starting to feel really really abnormal again for never talking to anyone around me. I wish I wasn't like that.
 
sparsilestar

sparsilestar

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I am so horrible to myself in my head all the time, so I think maybe I'll try the more positive route on this...

I wish I had (at least a little) discipline.
I wish I had more self control.
I wish I could get out of bed in the morning... and stay out.
I wish I wasn't so scared all the time.
I wish I could see myself the way my family and boyfriend see me.
I wish accepting happiness came easily to me.
I wish I could be less of a perfectionist, and could ENJOY creating things.
I wish I had a passion for something.
I wish I were confident in myself.

There is more, so so much more, but even without saying the word "hate", I still feel like crap after writing that out. Haha
 
razzle dazzle rose

razzle dazzle rose

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I wish I was not so anxious and lived in the moment more: more fun, less worry.
I wish I could lose those last ten pounds and say no to that second piece of chocolate cake.
I wish I knew what I wanted to do, and had the motivation and energy to do it.
 
Aletheia

Aletheia

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"Unless I accept my faults, I will most certainly doubt my virtues."

the insecurity
the awkwardness that arises from the insecurity
the self-centredness that arises from the awkwardness and insecurity

the cowardice
 
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sullyS25

sullyS25

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I am sorry you hate so many things about yourself. I used to only concern myself with all the things I hated about myself and I was always sad. Today I do try and concentrate on the things I like about myself as hard as it may be sometimes.
 
Eyv

Eyv

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I wish i had the energy to do other things than to sit on the computer
I wish i had a lot more self confidence
I wish i had the patience to learn new things
I wish i wasn't going bald
I wish i could get up for school every morning
I wish i was less awkward
I wish i could have a normal conversation with someone
 
doubtmyself

doubtmyself

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This thread reminds me of my family culture....that listing your own faults is a weird form of pride, of exaltation.....(that at least I don't list all my good points like those egomaniacs down the road!)....that it is better to point out your own faults before someone else points them out to you too!;)
 
chocchipz

chocchipz

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I hate that I have trouble expressing emotion, especially to people i care about.
I hate the way I'm sabotaging my own life.
I hate how much I worry and care about what others think.
I hate not having any confidence or self esteem.
I hate how much I regret.
I hate how many opportunities I've missed.
I hate my inability to communicate.
 
NP88

NP88

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That life is so short and I'm spending it alone.

That I have amazing dreams and aspirations most of which I'm too cowardly to pursue.

That I hurt other people who want to be close to me and keep them out of my life for no good apparent reason.

That I let time tick away while I sit pondering all the things that I could be doing to better myself.

Most of all that I have no mental motivation to do anything, even the things that I like to do.
 
Shyangel

Shyangel

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NP88 said:
That life is so short and I'm spending it alone.

That I have amazing dreams and aspirations most of which I'm too cowardly to pursue.

That I hurt other people who want to be close to me and keep them out of my life for no good apparent reason.

That I let time tick away while I sit pondering all the things that I could be doing to better myself.

Most of all that I have no mental motivation to do anything, even the things that I like to do.
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I feel like you just spoke my mind. I have alot dreams and things I think about doing, but hardly ever do them. I waste so much time thinking about things I can do to fix things and never do. I'm ashamed of that. The motivation thing; big issue. I hardly do anything anymore. Including things I enjoy. I pretty much sit around doing nothing all day. I have to really force myself to get me to do anything else....It's all sad but true...I only blame myself for my position, though.
 
kihira

kihira

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Helmaninquiel said:
You know maybe this was a stupid thread, I shouldn't really be asking for your negative thoughts but positive. If anyone wants me to delete then just tell me.
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I really like this thread, it allowed me to say some things that were on my mind and I'm feeling better for it. I can see that much of what I hate about myself is changeable with effort
 
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pop-princess

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Umm... dunno if this is a good thing to do but here goes:

Physical appearance:

I hate my legs
I wish I was skinnier and taller
I hate that I look tired and puffy often with dark circles under my eyes
I wish my hair wasn't wavy
I wish I had a prettier nose
I wish I had hairier eyebrows and longer eyelashes lol
I wish my teeth were whiter

Personality:

I wish I wasn't so insecure
I wish I didn't care so much what other people think
I wish I was better at concentrating
I wish I was better at maths and school in general
I wish I wasn't self destructive
I wish I was happier
I wish I was more spontaneous

That's all I can think of at the moment....
 
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pop-princess

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Umm... dunno if this is a good thing to do but here goes:

Physical appearance:

I hate my legs
I wish I was skinnier and taller
I hate that I look tired and puffy often with dark circles under my eyes
I wish my hair wasn't wavy
I wish I had a prettier nose
I wish I had hairier eyebrows and longer eyelashes lol
I wish my teeth were whiter

Personality:

I wish I wasn't so insecure
I wish I didn't care so much what other people think
I wish I was better at concentrating
I wish I was better at maths and school in general
I wish I wasn't self destructive
I wish I was happier
I wish I was more spontaneous

That's all I can think of at the moment....
 
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