FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
Why tell them at all, Graeme?
How are you feeling?
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Why tell them at all, Graeme?
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Cuz they're nosy bitches who huv to know everything that's going on, otherwise they feel outta the loop. "How come ye didnae tell me?!"
Case in point, the other day my mother and older sister bolt upstairs to my room asking me to order a Christmas present for my niece, asking if I've got an Amazon Prime account in process. And they were shocked and dumbfounded to learn that I've had that account long before Amazon Prime got into streaming TV shows and movies, as it started out as a free delivery service.
FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
Cuz they're nosy bitches who huv to know everything that's going on, otherwise they feel outta the loop. "How come ye didnae tell me?!"
Case in point, the other day my mother and older sister bolt upstairs to my room asking me to order a Christmas present for my niece, asking if I've got an Amazon Prime account in process. And they were shocked and dumbfounded to learn that I've had that account long before Amazon Prime got into streaming TV shows and movies, as it started out as a free delivery service.
That just means they deserve to know even less!
They've gotten their pound of flesh from you, let them dangle a little... they'll get the message when you start packing, ha ha.
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Just coming to terms with the fact that, for all I do for them, my family never gives me a break. :sad: I'm always called upon to do something for them. Whether that something computer related, reminding them to do something that is solely their responsibility because my memory is supposedly better than either my mother's or my older sisters. Which is utter pish... D'y'know what it like, huvin a brain that's constantly "on" ? To never truly be allowed to take yer mind off things, or care for yerself cuz you're family believes they come before you as far who takes priority in yer life? :kickingmyself:
Always gotta keep 'em, otherwise they take umbrage and start telling I'm being selfish. :thumbdown:
Well, better being that than a narcissist, needy, obnoxious twat-bubble who can't handle being told "No" or being alone.
Always gotta keep 'em, otherwise they take umbrage and start telling I'm being selfish. :thumbdown:
Well, better being that than a narcissist, needy, obnoxious twat-bubble who can't handle being told "No" or being alone.
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Ah think I've lost all sympathy for my mother... :sad: All she does is complain about her problems. :thumbdown:
Marc7
Well-known member
Oh. So you wanted to end your life because you have frustration from all those years of trying to be the voice of reason?
Oh, wow that is opposite ends of each other.
At least she turned around, that's good.
Oh, the radical 3rd wave feminist is normally stereotyped as a woman who hates men, believe she is better than them, and thus doesn't need a man in her life. A view I frequently heard from my mother during my formative years. And something I still resent her for due to the contradictory message of "All men are useless, except you son" :idontknow:
Oh, that's messed up that your mother had that view during your formative years.
Yea.
I feel inferior to some people mainly because I'm not caught up on things, they do things I would like to do, and do things they are not supposed to be doing. And I guess you could say I'm not like them.
I figured that.
Maybe you could word it in a different way.
Oh. What is posh and a rough council estate?
Btw I responded back on the chat.
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Honestly? Yeah... I'm fed-up making the same points and being proven right every time. I mean, a few months ago there back in August, my older sister was dumbfounded at me daring to ask if anyone in my family could settle their disagreements like mature adults.
Yeah, but it's too late to get our relationship back to how it was. Mainly because my mother would rather being negative, make excuses and feel sorry for herself. And I only have so much tolerance and sympathy for people like that.
Sadly she still holds that same hateful view on men, 15 years later. :sad: But refuses to see the link between my self-esteem issues, and curious lack of girlfriends, and her contradictory, hypocritical views on men.
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Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
I can definitely relate there.
Just an area where all the houses are built and maintained by the local council. A rough council estate tends to be run-down.There isn't really such a thing as a posh council estate. Since the posh f*ckers in my area tend to be from the more rural countryside.
Whereas a rough council estate, where I'm from, tends to look like this:
^ Not exactly the best place to grow-up.
The rough estates huv a lotta junkies, dysfunctional families and general anti-social behaviour. Ya don't get any o' that if ye live in the countryside. :bigsmile: Whereas on a rough council estate, there's a good chance one of yer relatives has been in trouble with the police, and their court appearance got a small write-up in the local newspaper.
I tried to respond to your last message on the chat, but my reply wouldn't send. :idontknow:
Is this what a posh ****er looks like?
(Sorry, I really can't help myself :bigsmile
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Is this what a posh ****er looks like?
(Sorry, I really can't help myself :bigsmile
Eh, with that haircut? Aye... Wait! You said looks like, right? Cuz David Beckham only married Posh.
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Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Still raging after finding out that my older sister has spent more time posting status updates and photos on Facebook than she has looked after her 2 daughters, ever since she moved back into the family home. Posting about how great her life is, while going off at us as she goes through a divorce. :kickingmyself: :thumbdown:
When tha f*ck did Facebook become more important than yer family? Huh?! :idontknow:
When tha f*ck did Facebook become more important than yer family? Huh?! :idontknow:
PugofCrydee
You want to know how I got these scars?
I know right??
It really gets my goat up when people dont look after their kids (no pun intended lol)
In the eyes of the child the mother/father is 'god'. So when that god neglects you it's no wonder that child grows up with issues.
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Role model might be a better terminology? Yet point is still correct, nonetheless. Though both my parents neglected me in different way, so I know the kinda issues that come from that. :sad: Still, their neglect taught me to fend for myself and not be overly dependent upon other people.
Eh, with that haircut? Aye... Wait! You said looks like, right? Cuz David Beckham only married Posh.
Yes, it's because he married Posh Spice :
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grapevine
Well-known member
Well 'he' aka Rugs- is on a spiral now- just as he was being okay and for some reason he's gone into this regression again.
Its so startling to see his Instagram posts that go by each hour and so on- all day of just a same selfie and writing psychopathic and delusional and arrogant/egotistical stuff on there.
Its so startling to see his Instagram posts that go by each hour and so on- all day of just a same selfie and writing psychopathic and delusional and arrogant/egotistical stuff on there.
Marc7
Well-known member
Honestly? Yeah... I'm fed-up making the same points and being proven right every time. I mean, a few months ago there back in August, my older sister was dumbfounded at me daring to ask if anyone in my family could settle their disagreements like mature adults.
It's frustrating but you should try to hang on to your life. Maybe release the frustration somehow by coping skills or therapy if possible.
Oh, so she is not better towards you?
Sadly she still holds that same hateful view on men, 15 years later. :sad: But refuses to see the link between my self-esteem issues, and curious lack of girlfriends, and her contradictory, hypocritical views on men.
I think there is a link between the three.
Marc7
Well-known member
So your not caught up with things either?
Just an area where all the houses are built and maintained by the local council. A rough council estate tends to be run-down.There isn't really such a thing as a posh council estate. Since the posh f*ckers in my area tend to be from the more rural countryside.
Whereas a rough council estate, where I'm from, tends to look like this:
^ Not exactly the best place to grow-up.
The rough estates huv a lotta junkies, dysfunctional families and general anti-social behaviour. Ya don't get any o' that if ye live in the countryside. :bigsmile: Whereas on a rough council estate, there's a good chance one of yer relatives has been in trouble with the police, and their court appearance got a small write-up in the local newspaper.
Sorry for the barrage of questions. So the council is like the government right? So it is like the poorer area? You still live in the rough council estate? What does posh mean?
It won't send from your end? Maybe try sending it again and if that doesn't work then try sending it on a different device.