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jimmy75

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Feeling nervous. Got someone coming over on Saturday morning from craigslist for sex. I'm not sure what to do though since I'm a virgin. Anyone got any tips?
 

lyricalliaisons

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Anxious and annoyed and a bit tired. Also hungry.

Annoyed because I sold a pair of shoes and the buyer said she'd be at my house three hours ago and she's still not here. I sent her a message almost a hour ago asking her if she's still coming today. I sold the shoes for $38 even though I spent $80 on them and they've never been worn, still have the tags, box, and paper inside because we need food. If she doesn't come, me and my mom will be stuck eating off brand cheerios with no milk for dinner because that's all the food we have.
 

MollyBeGood

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Feeling Happy-yeah found some full episodes of Dr.Phil from this yr on YouTube. my guilty pleasure.
 
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Yeah, I was in quite a bad place when I posted that ad, never expected anyone to reply to me. Might as well do it though, I've got nothing to lose.

Yeah. Nothing but your life dude. Have her (I'm assuming its a her) meet you somewhere public. Then go case the scene and see if she's alone or if some guy is hiding in the bushes waiting to jump you for your wallet. Get there an hour early and observe. When you have her in sight, call her on her cell phone and when you hang up see if she calls or texts anybody after she hangs up from talking to you. Also, dont take her to your place, go to a hotel instead. She might go to your home and do you and bring her boyfriend back later when you ain't home to steal you blind. And don't mention money for sex at all, she might be an undercover cop working on the pretext of being a hooker. If anything don't seem right, get outta dodge, dude. :thumbup:
 
Yeah. Nothing but your life dude. Have her (I'm assuming its a her) meet you somewhere public. Then go case the scene and see if she's alone or if some guy is hiding in the bushes waiting to jump you for your wallet. Get there an hour early and observe. When you have her in sight, call her on her cell phone and when you hang up see if she calls or texts anybody after she hangs up from talking to you. Also, dont take her to your place, go to a hotel instead. She might go to your home and do you and bring her boyfriend back later when you ain't home to steal you blind. And don't mention money for sex at all, she might be an undercover cop working on the pretext of being a hooker. If anything don't seem right, get outta dodge, dude. :thumbup:

In other words... don't do it :p
 

Kiwong

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:thinking: Meeting a stranger for sex, could lead to a whole host of unexpected consequences and complications.

I can't imagine doing anything more awkward and stressful.
 

vj288

not actually Fiona Apple
I'm not ok, I don't know why, and I don't know what to do about it. I hardly know why I post this on a social anxiety website either, I know it's something with comorbidity of other things, but it hardly makes it directly relevant. Maybe I'm just a loser, a problem but not an illness or anything. I can barely go ten minutes with some sort of distraction. I won't let myself figure out what's wrong. I can't even make a proper post. I just want to slam on the keyboard for pages of gibberish. I'm just not okay and I can't get it out.
 

MikeyC

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I'm not ok, I don't know why, and I don't know what to do about it. I hardly know why I post this on a social anxiety website either, I know it's something with comorbidity of other things, but it hardly makes it directly relevant. Maybe I'm just a loser, a problem but not an illness or anything. I can barely go ten minutes with some sort of distraction. I won't let myself figure out what's wrong. I can't even make a proper post. I just want to slam on the keyboard for pages of gibberish. I'm just not okay and I can't get it out.
Just because you can't pinpoint what's causing you problems right now doesn't make you a loser. It could be a lot of little things that pile up and are overbearing. Have a think about what's causing you some trouble and see if there's any way you can deal with it. :)
 

vj288

not actually Fiona Apple
Just because you can't pinpoint what's causing you problems right now doesn't make you a loser. It could be a lot of little things that pile up and are overbearing. Have a think about what's causing you some trouble and see if there's any way you can deal with it. :)

My logic was more along the lines that the problem, if you want to call it that, is that I am acting like a loser. I sit around doing nothing when I'm not at work, and don't enjoy anything, and no drive to do anything either. Every day just feels exactly the same, with nothing different up ahead.
 

MikeyC

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My logic was more along the lines that the problem, if you want to call it that, is that I am acting like a loser. I sit around doing nothing when I'm not at work, and don't enjoy anything, and no drive to do anything either. Every day just feels exactly the same, with nothing different up ahead.
Lack of motivation can be tough. It takes that certain push to get going with anything. If you want to do something, work out if it's possible to make it happen. It may be tough but not exactly out of your reach, either. :)
 

Lavinialuna

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....Freaked out. Mid anxiety attack. The yard that looked like a nice large space this afternoon seems to be closing in on me. What caused it? Pathetically it was caused by my 8 year old son having 2 friends over when it wasn't planned. One kept asking questions and one chased my chickens (even my dog is trained better than that, and I feel guilty saying it because who is mean to a kid? They are just kids...)
People who enter my home without me being mentally prepared for it is like having a giant sliver. Even after it's pulled out and gone it still throbs for awhile.
 
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