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Old 06-17-2013
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How they look like, what clothes their wearing, personality wise, ect. I have to admit, besides having crushes on chubby/skinny kind of guys, I also always had a thing for a guy dresses in a very casual relaxed way, wearing clothes like gray clothes or very neutral colored clothing, very soothing, calm soft spoken voice and personality, artistic like, wears glasses, and wears beanie like hats. I don't know why, I guess maybe its just the casual laid back kind of mysterious look on a guy and how they act that as well is what I like also, I just find it to be really endearing to me.
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Old 06-17-2013

I can't really pinpoint. I've been attracted to many different kinds of men. Though I'd say shorter guys usually catch my eye much more than guys who are taller than average.
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Old 06-20-2013
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Im attracted to girls who are creative, kind, and love to be silly.
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Old 06-20-2013
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I like thin, abnormal guys with dark hair.
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Old 06-20-2013
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I always am attracted to rugby players..I dont know something bout their big muscles and tight tops...if a guy tells me hes a rugby player I instantly get exicted its hot..I remember being in the supermarket and I saw a guy who had massive muscles and looked like a rugby player and I felt instantly attracted to him...on the other hand I like chubby guys too and rugby players are sometimes chubby too..guys with round faces and beards are attractive to me too...I like a guy to be funny, smart, passionate and outgoing
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Old 06-21-2013

The most important thing is that sort of instant familiarity that I get with certain kinds of people... this mostly happens because we have an almost eerie amount of things in common.

I also like a moderate degree of adventurousness, fit but not obsessive, likes sci-fi, similar level of intelligence... basically, I want the female version of myself. Maybe that makes me a narcissist... which to be honest, I also kind of like.
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Old 06-21-2013
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Someone like me except with higher self-esteem and more confidence. Someone who is kind, gentle, patient and modest.
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Old 06-21-2013
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A women who has a inner child and loves to do childish thing once an while . A women who connect with me and help me feel I don`t have to strain myself all the time to impress her. A women who is beautiful and has great acting skills and loves to play dress up. A women who don`t smoke or drink.
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Old 06-21-2013
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Female geeks and nerds, ideally with a slight gothy touch. Well, and atheist/agnostic, open minded, tolerant, educated.

Found my current partner by stumbling over her profile on some website, where there was a photo of her, playing some card game wearing black clothes. That got me interested enough.
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Old 06-21-2013
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Looks - Thin, but in a healthy way. I guess just a person that takes care of them-self physically.

Cloths - I couldn't care less, fashion has very little impact on my attraction. I will admit though I do find an attraction to originality and things out of the ordinary. Like, if I saw a girl with pink hair and a home made outfit or something that would be kinda hot too me.

Personality - Open minded, not overly religious, free spirited, sexually liberated, free thinking, intellectual, even maybe a bit philosophical, and kind hearted.
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Old 06-21-2013

People who are more relaxed like me. Someone who is smart and open minded when it comes to personalities, who is also unique in personality themselves.
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Old 06-21-2013
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I'm always attractive to guys that have an amazing personality I don't pay much attention to the physical form of the person
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Old 06-21-2013
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Initially it's the face, the smile, her eyes, her demeanor, humble, cute and friendly. Is doesn't matter how good looking a girl is, if she's stuck up, doesn't smile, doesn't have kind eyes - that is an instant turn off for me.
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Old 06-21-2013
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Two things attract me to a person.
1. Someone who treats me with respect.
2. Someone who does not have a desire or need to control me.

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Old 06-21-2013
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I definitely have a type: Sweet personality (extra points for being a dork, geek or nerd), slim and usually long hair although that's not a requirement.
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Old 06-21-2013
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As much as I like girls (and people in general) who are quiet, polite, and humble, I can't help but be attracted to witty, outspoken girls who aren't afraid to say anything to anyone. The most attractive girls I've ever met have been that witty, brutally honest, kinda sarcastic and joking personality. Basically the opposite of me. Maybe living in New York has something to do with that.
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Old 06-21-2013
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Seems to have been all the people that weren't attracted to me.
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Old 06-21-2013

Women. The kind I can actually have a conversation with. I like the down to earth girls that know a little about almost anything and like being outdoors. I like the girls that see a lake and want to just jump in and swim, ones that will go hiking/camping/horseback riding with me. In my mind, a smart, spontaneous, well rounded, outdoorsy gal is perfect. If she can drive a straight shift vehicle and be all the aforementioned... she is wife material!
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Old 06-21-2013
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Basically Im attracted to those who look like Kurt Cobain... Except Ive never met anyone who looked like him much.
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Old 06-21-2013

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Basically Im attracted to those who look like Kurt Cobain... Except Ive never met anyone who looked like him much.
I like him as well, but that doesnt mean I dont like any other types. It is hard to pinpoint lookwise what I am attracted to. I am not of those who have very narrow specific criteria, like hair/eye color, height etc. Because everyone is so unique, an unique mix of looks and personality. As for personality they should be very nice and kind, mature, intelligent, easy to talk to about anything, nonjudgmental. Who I know where I stand with them and who can be depended on. Definitely they should be honest, not lie, cheat etc. And have sense of humor, otherwise I would piss them soon off.
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