What kind of people are you attracted to?
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polishgirl
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Fun, intelligent people. It's such a hard combination though
polishgirl
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haha your only "requirement" is the physical attractiveness? Well, good luck with that
OceanMist
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haha your only "requirement" is the physical attractiveness? Well, good luck with that
the other requirement is that she likes me for who I am.
My standards will probably change if i date an attractive woman who I turn out not liking, but that's yet to happen.
Someone who is considerate but can be a bit arrogant, and who has that natural ability to make those around them feel better. The downside to that is, because so many people like them, it's impossible to find one that's single. Common ground would be of great help too.
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conscious_mindz
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I'm attracted to natural looking women, not much makeup just the natural girl next door type with a cute personality, geeky, not too overconfident just unassuming & cute! And i love a cute smile
Dominant in the bedroom (Which i am too) eager to try new things sexually (sorry ay be tmi)! Someone whos as dominant as me generally even tho I'm the woman.
I'm not attracted to these types who seem to want me to 'look after' them somehow, the man is supposed to be that person and I'd want us both to be. Don't want a man who is too needy it's a total turn off, but I can be needy because I'm a woman and messed up at that.
The types I seem to attract are almost abusive users and this seems to be a pattern for me.Sadly the seem to have everything I want in terms of who they are but are just totally unavailable for a relationship. I cannot figure out why I do this? :/.
I'm not attracted to these types who seem to want me to 'look after' them somehow, the man is supposed to be that person and I'd want us both to be. Don't want a man who is too needy it's a total turn off, but I can be needy because I'm a woman and messed up at that.
The types I seem to attract are almost abusive users and this seems to be a pattern for me.Sadly the seem to have everything I want in terms of who they are but are just totally unavailable for a relationship. I cannot figure out why I do this? :/.
Lea
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I saw recently this book from Sandra L. Brown in the shop, it seems to be interesting
How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved - WomanSavers
How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved - WomanSavers
I can't find the exact quote, but Jeff Foxworthy had a good one about this. He said women have this fantasy of the 'dangerous man', but they're thinking about someone like James Bond. In reality, if you end up with a dangerous man, you'll find yourself on a episode of "cops" leaning out the window of a trailer home yelling "lock him up--lock his sorry *** up!"
planemo
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As far as friends are concerned, i guess i'm attracted to people who aren't popular or think a lot of themselves (although i know that's a very subjective evaluation). people who are more down to earth and willing to associate with someone like me.
a far as a possible love interest goes. well, she must be down to earth as well, and kind and willing to associate with me. as far as looks go (i guess everyone wishes they can have someone very beautiful for a partner) but i don't mind how she looks even if she's not what society deems as "celebrity beautiful". i am attracted to shorter type girls, with dark hair and eyes. but the most important thing is her attitude towards other people. if she's not more of the accepting and understanding type, then i'd probably not be attracted to her.
a far as a possible love interest goes. well, she must be down to earth as well, and kind and willing to associate with me. as far as looks go (i guess everyone wishes they can have someone very beautiful for a partner) but i don't mind how she looks even if she's not what society deems as "celebrity beautiful". i am attracted to shorter type girls, with dark hair and eyes. but the most important thing is her attitude towards other people. if she's not more of the accepting and understanding type, then i'd probably not be attracted to her.
ImNotMyIllness
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People with a spirit of fun, play and adventure. Humor and intelligence are also important.
neotrinity
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I've forgotton since it's been so long since I met anyone!
Lou-s-Darkness
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My dream man (which is highly unattainable...considering my social situation) would be someone kind, but very confident, not overbearing, funny and very sweet. I fall head over heals for a man with very nice eyes and an attractive, beautiful smile. I also love dark haired guys :> Sometimes I wish I was a character in a book lol.