I used to really like this guy and when I was with him. We had a casual relationship for a while and I grew to like him more. He was my first so it was a very intense feeling at the time. When it was over we still stayed in touch because he told me that he still wanted to be my friend. I believed him because after our thing ended he got back together with his ex so I really did believe he just wanted to be my friend. He's been with her 3 years now so this whole "friendship" nightmare has been going on that long. Our FWB thing ended just before he got back with her.
Unfortunately that turned out to be a lie and every time I saw him he'd grope me or make suggestive comments. I put up with it because my feelings for him were still there. Eventually I just couldn't take it anymore and I told him that his behaviour confused me and that it wasn't fair. He replied that he respected that but didn't want to stop being friends. I told him I just couldn't be friends with him and after that he didn't text back or respond he just ignored me. He deleted me from Facebook the next day and hasn't spoken to me since.
Obviously I know I said I couldn't be his friend anymore but I find it hurtful that he didn't even bother to speak to me first before just cutting me off because it was easier to do that than face me.
So, that was March and we haven't spoken since then. I went on Facebook last night and he'd sent me an inbox message saying how he "misses us as friends" and did i want to meet up with him. I replied that i didn't think that was a good idea. He replied back that that was fine, that he understood and he can wait until a time that works for me. I sent him a friend request on Facebook because i wanted to talk to him (stupid i know) but he ignored it.
I'm just p*ssed off with myself because i was doing pretty well until he contacted me but now all i can think about is him and how he's happy and getting away with it. He's a cheat and a scumbag yet he's got a relationship and a girlfriend who obviously thinks the sun shines out of his as* and they've recently moved in together. I can't get over the anger and the fact that nobody knows (well most people) what he's really like. I don't know her personally obviously so i'm just assuming she's happy and gullible.
Will he ever get found out? I mean, he's been trying (hasn't succeeded) to cheat on her with me for over 2 years yet she STILL hasn't noticed (as far as i know). He's tried to get with a friend of mine as well (she told him to get lost) and no doubt has other girls on the side some where.
Unfortunately that turned out to be a lie and every time I saw him he'd grope me or make suggestive comments. I put up with it because my feelings for him were still there. Eventually I just couldn't take it anymore and I told him that his behaviour confused me and that it wasn't fair. He replied that he respected that but didn't want to stop being friends. I told him I just couldn't be friends with him and after that he didn't text back or respond he just ignored me. He deleted me from Facebook the next day and hasn't spoken to me since.
Obviously I know I said I couldn't be his friend anymore but I find it hurtful that he didn't even bother to speak to me first before just cutting me off because it was easier to do that than face me.
So, that was March and we haven't spoken since then. I went on Facebook last night and he'd sent me an inbox message saying how he "misses us as friends" and did i want to meet up with him. I replied that i didn't think that was a good idea. He replied back that that was fine, that he understood and he can wait until a time that works for me. I sent him a friend request on Facebook because i wanted to talk to him (stupid i know) but he ignored it.
I'm just p*ssed off with myself because i was doing pretty well until he contacted me but now all i can think about is him and how he's happy and getting away with it. He's a cheat and a scumbag yet he's got a relationship and a girlfriend who obviously thinks the sun shines out of his as* and they've recently moved in together. I can't get over the anger and the fact that nobody knows (well most people) what he's really like. I don't know her personally obviously so i'm just assuming she's happy and gullible.
Will he ever get found out? I mean, he's been trying (hasn't succeeded) to cheat on her with me for over 2 years yet she STILL hasn't noticed (as far as i know). He's tried to get with a friend of mine as well (she told him to get lost) and no doubt has other girls on the side some where.