Why are people so cold?

Metal_isthe_Answer

Metal_isthe_Answer

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But at the same time, I cant say much, I really dont find heavier women attractive, which I hate to say since I grew up so heavy myself.
Maybe its because I grew up heavy, maybe its also why Ive been single for so long, thinner women arent interested in me and Im not interested in heavy women, which again, makes me feel terrible
 
Metal_isthe_Answer

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fitftw said:
I believe it was South Park that brought to light the fact that at LEAST 25% of people are retarded in regards to intelligence/intellect.
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Yes, it was the four boys, Kyle says to Cartman
"Lets take a test sample, theres four of us, you're a retard thats one fourth"
 
Metal_isthe_Answer

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CarrotStix said:
Everyone has their likes and preferences. Just because you can't find one type attractive, doesn't mean you're super shallow or anything. I mean, as long as you're not flat out insulting the person on their looks, why should it matter?
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Nah I dont ever say anything to others, I was on the receiving end of that for too long
 
razzle dazzle rose

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Maybe they were being sarcastic or trying to be funny? It is quite mean to say that about someone, especially when that person didn't give them reason to--to call someone "disgusting" 'cause of their breast size is uncalled for. At least they didn't tell her these things to her face like some do...
 
emre43

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Empty_shell said:
I have to wonder why the blonde haired girl would say that, I'd like to believe it's not just because she's a cold and heartless person. Maybe she's jealous of her, or insecure with herself in some way and does this to raise herself (presuming she does not have small breasts). It seems odd to me she'd just ask you that out of the blue, it seems as if she had a goal in mind when saying it. There's no chance she likes you, or your friend by any chance? This whole interactions seems to me like her building up positive qualities about herself and instilling negative qualities in her "competition." And you know your friend better than I do, but him agreeing with her sounds more like a him complimenting the blonde haired girl than insulting the less-busty girl (indirectly, the way he worded it is an insult obviously). I still don't approve of their comments at all, but that's just my take on what may have been going on.
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I think that as I said I was in a daydream just staring at this girl who was in front of me and the blonde girl sitting behind me possibly wondered why a boy was giving attention to a girl that wasn't her. She's the kind who will do anything and everything to get every guy who walks past her to want to turn their heads around and stare at her wherever she goes; which repulses me.

My "friend" (who I've lost a lot of respect for after his comment) I have no idea why he said that, he could have worded it a lo better.

P.S. I forgot to mention in my original post that the blonde girl also reckons that I am a "borderline paedophile".
 
emre43

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CarrotStix said:
I'm actually curious if this girl is as flat chested as they say, or if she does have some boobs. Depending on the answer, it might tell you if this person doing the insulting is actually pointing out a flaw, or is just bitter.
Not that it is a flaw however.
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I don't think that she is flat-chested. I would describe her chest as pert.
 
Hamelech

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I betcha that girl was jealous, due to their sense of competitiveness in terms of beauty. Anyway, I can like a slightly flat-chested girl, indeed, I find it nicer than those who are fatter.
 
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If I were attracted to women, I think that I would be much more attracted to a small-chested girl who is comfortable with her body, rather than a large-chested girl who resorts to belittling others because she feels self-conscious. I mean, really, which one do you think is going to be more fun from a physical standpoint?
 
JamesSmith

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Everyone has a mean side. Some people have the mean switch turned on more than others. This is how life works, many cruel folks out there. It's something I've just accepted.

I've found that most people are kind for the most part. You just have to get to know them.
 
Falkor

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Jeez, cold stones. I have baken eggs myself (xD) and I have a lover too.

I don't have big ladies eather, so who cares? it's about so much more!


So why bother? Follow your heart!
 
theslowesthand

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JamesSmith said:
Everyone has a mean side. Some people have the mean switch turned on more than others. This is how life works, many cruel folks out there. It's something I've just accepted.
I've found that most people are kind for the most part. You just have to get to know them
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We are all born "sinners". The battle is is to overcome this inate tendency, which for more and more people nowadays, seems to be an unobtainable goal - so they simply don't bother trying.
 
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nicole1

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Well, she's too good for them to even speak so badly about her. Their opinion doesn't even matter. Just ask her out or tell her she's pretty. The other two people you mentioned are very shallow.
 
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thesmallestloser said:
We are all born "sinners". The battle is is to overcome this inate tendency, which for more and more people nowadays, seems to be an unobtainable goal - so they simply don't bother trying.
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I agree with you. Someone tried to through that "we're all human" and "we're all sinners" at me and it annoys me. It's also human to make right and wrong decisions, and no one ever takes that into account. They just use it as an excuse to keep messing up and messing over people.
 
Falkor

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paye said:
they are scared.
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My boobs are scared too, if guys are looking at them all the time.

That's why their hidden under the t shirt, they don't want to be seen.

They can be very social anxious too.

Also they are always bitching to eachother ''Hey , there's a hot guy looking at me'' the other : ''.... you, look at the girls you idiot!''

They also feel very rejected by people wanting them to get bigger

Yeah, it's very complicated

got a few solvations for you guys

- first look at yourself Mister little .ucky.
- buy a pamela andersson doll and play on
- buy some melon juice
- start juggling with oranges and go dress up yourself (to the one's who are like this:p)

Edit: I'm sorry if you felt offended Paye, I wasn't making a comment back to you. ;$
I was just talking about people in general, I'm just making a random joke.
 
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paye

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Saskia said:
My boobs are scared too, if guys are looking at them all the time.

That's why their hidden under the t shirt, they don't want to be seen.

They can be very social anxious too.

Also they are always bitching to eachother ''Hey , there's a hot guy looking at me'' the other : ''.... you, look at the girls you idiot!''

They also feel very rejected by people wanting them to get bigger

Yeah, it's very complicated

got a few solvations for you guys

- first look at yourself Mister little .ucky.
- buy a pamela andersson doll and play on
- buy some melon juice
- start juggling with oranges and go dress up yourself, dude
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whats wrong with u, did i say something wrong?
 
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