Who's Desperate?

[CosmicNeurotica]

"I'm so desperate I've been trying dating sites for the past few years."

News flash. That's not being desperate. That's just putting yourself out there. Try getting drunk by yourself all the time and knocking on random peoples door just because you need a friend. Or trying to go home with someone from the bar, just to hang, because you need a friend. Or bawling and hanging on when your girlfriend says she needs time. Or just pretending to be cool in general so people will like you.
Again. Putting yourself on an internet dating site is not being desperate.

 

[spect01]

“Lonely men seek companionship. Lonely women sit at home and wait. They never meet.”

-Abraham Lincoln

 

[zav943]

Before saying you're desperate, consider that your standards may be too high.

I think most people here, like me, keep obsessively chasing attractive (or very attractive) guys/girls who show them attention, and end up getting rejected or backing off every time....I'm doing it RIGHT NOW...again! Why? Don't ask me!

If you lower your standards and put the same effort into trying to get close to someone, shall we say, "normal", you'd probably face better odds and wouldn't be inclined to say you're desperate.

 

[Tiercel]

If you lower your standards and put the same effort into trying to get close to someone, shall we say, "normal", you'd probably face better odds and wouldn't be inclined to say you're desperate.

Hehehe. The last "normal" girl I tried to get close to blew up on me quite spectacularly. So just be careful which ones you deem normal, everyone.

 

[da_illest101]

I think i'm. I have been so depressed lately that I don't even know what i want anymore

 

[Falkor]

I once heard a song on my grandma's radio playin'. It was called ''Oh Lonesome Me'' I can really relate to the song.. =(

Everybody's going out and having fun
I'm just a fool for staying home and having none
I can't get over how she set set me free oh lonesome me
A bad mistake I'm making by just hanging round
I know that I should have some fun and paint the town

But hey. I am desperate, but I try not to feel desperate,
works great sometimes

 

[Tmeister]

I'm used to being alone now can't remember when i was last in a relationship not that bothered anymore about it... also i want to get over some of my fears of SA and try and beat this thing... tis very tough

 

[Uber Schnitzel]

I'm convinced it's just a matter of people needing to get themselves out there. There are so many cool and beautiful people on this site I cannot believe that they can't get dates. I think there is the right person (well several actually) for everyone, even ones that will understand SA and all that goes with it. It's just a matter of getting through a bunch of wrong ones first. I'm quite the optimist though

 

[guessed]

yea I'm despo. I know intellectually that I'm the only person who can make myself happy, fullfilled, confident etc.. but it would be so nice to have somebody to love, and it's nice to know that someone else wants to find someone to work on their issues/insecurities with together.

 

[Island_chic]

sure. I'm desperate but I won't do anything foolish because of it. Love is too important to me to screw up! Meaning that I won't just settle for anyone, marry anyone because Im so lonely.

 

[Jesushasomeoneforme]

Jesus has someone for me Amen

 

[sevenroses]

At times I get like that but in general not really I enjoy my space, privacy, and freedom.

 

[Toby]

...............

 

[SociallyAwkwardAndShy]

I'm not desperate for a relationship, I try not to let myself get to that point. I'm desperate for a few more friends who i can hangout with who may have SA or understand , accept it and accept that i have it and we can all help each other out.

 

[dean01]

im desperate, but for company and compassion, ide love to find somone who just loves me.

 

[Waybuloo]

I'm desperate, I wish there's a non invasive procedure to get rid of your hormones when you've no use for them except misery.

 

[Felgen]

I want a girlfriend again, but since I've only been single for a little more than a month, I'm not desperate.

 

[fitftw]

being single is so much better, except you miss out on sex, which is fine. If it gets that bad, there's always the escort services

 

[vj288]

I'm desperate, I wish there's a non invasive procedure to get rid of your hormones when you've no use for them except misery.

Wait, is there an invasive procedure to get rid of hormones?

 

[Waybuloo]

being single is so much better, except you miss out on sex, which is fine. If it gets that bad, there's always the escort services

The escort services have an unfair bias towards guys.