nafadda
Well-known member
would you rather tough love like hearing things you may not want to hear but need to hear..or be coddled like a child long after you are not one??
just curious.
i have know so many grown people lately that want to be coddled and find it odd that many people are willing to do just that for them thinking it helps them..?? i just don't get it because in almost all those cases i have seen the people just get worse and continue to self destruct because people stood by and enabled them to do just that.
in quite a few of those people they only self destructed in the long run because it was as if NO one would make them actually look at things.
I think part of this is due to because of what we became as a society now we are so afraid to speak up because it is not politically correct and may ruffle someones feathers...well it will also make for a VERY weak society in the long run,because after all if people can only be able to hear what they want to hear and see what they want to see and people afraid to speak up and give some good ol' tough love advice..well good luck,it won't work IMO/..i mean anyone can sit and hear what they want to if thats all people will tell them.
just curious.
i have know so many grown people lately that want to be coddled and find it odd that many people are willing to do just that for them thinking it helps them..?? i just don't get it because in almost all those cases i have seen the people just get worse and continue to self destruct because people stood by and enabled them to do just that.
in quite a few of those people they only self destructed in the long run because it was as if NO one would make them actually look at things.
I think part of this is due to because of what we became as a society now we are so afraid to speak up because it is not politically correct and may ruffle someones feathers...well it will also make for a VERY weak society in the long run,because after all if people can only be able to hear what they want to hear and see what they want to see and people afraid to speak up and give some good ol' tough love advice..well good luck,it won't work IMO/..i mean anyone can sit and hear what they want to if thats all people will tell them.