I like the posts of Nafadda.. in fact it reminded me of my own thoughts that I have sometimes. What IMO is wrong is when people twist the truth (facts, reality) out of fear of not hurting other´s feelings. They think they´re being nice and considerate when instead of being upfront they resort to telling white (or even black) lies, or twisting the facts no matter how subtly. If this becomes a custom with everyone and the truth is not in the first place but other´s feelings, then the whole society falls into lies and becomes untrue and fake, hypocritical and therefore weak.
Even an "innocent", white lie like telling people that we´ve fallen from the stairs when in fact someone had beaten us. These people think they´re being nice or considerate towards other´s feeling, not wanting to shock them or so. But still, this is a lie. I can imagine my mother, who lies all the time, in everything, some might say she does so in order to protects others from bad news etc., but what she achieved with doing this in her life is that she lives with a rude violent man and instead of standing up against him, getting angry and telling him to stop, I won´t take this behaviour of yours anymore, she is getting out of his way, and behaves as his servant, attending to his every wish. Then her children (me) also suffer as a consequence of her not being honest.
Sadly so many people prefer to live in their illusional world of lies and hate people who make them to face the truth. And I learned if you´re the only honest person in a corrupt workplace for example, your fault leading to dismissal can be solely the fact that you are honest, which they hate, as they want people who are similary corrupt to play according to their hypocritical rules. This happened to me once, when I was fired despite the fact that I was the only person who actually worked, even stupidely and naivelly well.