Agent_Violet
Well-known member
Why do you think it's hard for many of us to accept a compliment?
I personally have trouble just accepting it as how the person really feels without that annoying inner voice saying, "they're just being nice." or "they just want something from you so they're being nice."
It's SO hard to simply say Thank you and truly accept that the person meant what they said.
I have a few theories on why it's hard for me. I think bc I have been programmed to think accepting a compliment and believing it is being cocky or conceited I'd rather deny the compliment and say the person saying it has ulterior motives. "they couldn't POSSIBLY think these good things about ME!"
If you have trouble accepting praise...why do you think you're like that?
I personally have trouble just accepting it as how the person really feels without that annoying inner voice saying, "they're just being nice." or "they just want something from you so they're being nice."
It's SO hard to simply say Thank you and truly accept that the person meant what they said.
I have a few theories on why it's hard for me. I think bc I have been programmed to think accepting a compliment and believing it is being cocky or conceited I'd rather deny the compliment and say the person saying it has ulterior motives. "they couldn't POSSIBLY think these good things about ME!"
If you have trouble accepting praise...why do you think you're like that?