THeCARS1979
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Im yearning for someone but I have absolutely no idea what Im going to do because Im wasting an awful lot of time
I can relate to this......alot.Hi,
Im wondering if anyone is in the same situation.
Well for the past maybe 7 years, i haven't actually felt that lonely. I felt like I needed to get better so maybe one day i'd be good enough, ready to accept myself and ready to let myself be accepted by someone else.
Lately hanging out in these forums with so many people, i've been starting to feel like i craved to want to be with someone again. but i dont think i am there yet, so i think im going to have to make the feeling go away.
Seven years is a long time for that sort of thing. I hope you can find someone like that.I tend to go through spurts of craving someone, wanting affection, wanting to be in a relationship, etc. For a few weeks I'll feel fine being single and being alone most of the time, then I tend to go into a period of hating being single and alone and feeling extremely lonely.
While I do want to experience a relationship, since I've never been in one, I don't think that's what I truly want. I think what I most crave isn't so much a relationship status and love, but rather just having someone in your life that you're very close to, that you can tell anything to, that someone who's there for you whenever you're depressed and will make you feel better, whether it is a significant other or a best friend. It's been a very, very long time where I've had someone in my life that I can tell absolutely anything to without fear of being judged. Hiding and pushing your personal emotions, thoughts, and issues away from people for 7 years really eats at you.
getting worse and worse everyday.
I found myself, recently going often on my former friend's facebook page, just to see what she is posting. I starting to fear that I might get desesperate enough to start a conversation with someone who clearly told me that she didn't want to be friends anymore due to how weird are friendship got.
If you're feeling this lonely, there's perhaps other avenues you could look to. Have you tried dating sites? Or similar sites where you look for friends?getting worse and worse everyday.
I found myself, recently going often on my former friend's facebook page, just to see what she is posting. I starting to fear that I might get desesperate enough to start a conversation with someone who clearly told me that she didn't want to be friends anymore due to how weird are friendship got.
I've thought about dating sites. What if the beautiful young woman I meet is really an psychopathic old lady with a bunch of cats to feed?If you're feeling this lonely, there's perhaps other avenues you could look to. Have you tried dating sites? Or similar sites where you look for friends?
You're thinking absolute worst-case scenario. Sometimes you have to take a risk if you feel desperate enough.I've thought about dating sites. What if the beautiful young woman I meet is really an psychopathic old lady with a bunch of cats to feed?
As lonely as I am I think the best thing would be to pick myself up and go to a bar or something.
Yeah you're right. Guess that's why I don't leave the house much.You're thinking absolute worst-case scenario. Sometimes you have to take a risk if you feel desperate enough.
Going to a bar is just as dangerous, I reckon.
If I thought worst-case scenario for absolutely everything, I would never leave the house or do anything, ever. Everything we do has a small element of risk.Yeah you're right. Guess that's why I don't leave the house much.
Wow, I didn't know this. I'm sorry. ::disabled by being legally blind so no car and will never be able to drive
I have a curse, which makes my life miserable, and having friends impossible.
enlight me please, because if I'm able to have friends anyone can