Single & Lonely? - Craving for someone

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da_illest101

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MikeyC said:
If you're feeling this lonely, there's perhaps other avenues you could look to. Have you tried dating sites? Or similar sites where you look for friends?
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Well I tried dating sites, for many year and never ended up with someone. Either the girl wasn't interested in me, either I wasn't interested, either I end up being a wuss and don't go, either the girl ended up being a wuss and cancel.

I just don't see how anyone who isn't similar to me could or would want to be with a guy like me. Not many girls would accept the real me, lol most have problems with the sub real me, I can't imagine the whole thing.

That's why when I feel lonely I think of the only girl I knew that was about as messed up as me ( actually we both agreed that she was more than me). I just cannot find anyone ( past friends, curent friends or new friends) where I feel so connected with the person
 
InvisaLady

InvisaLady

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da_illest101 said:
Well I tried dating sites, for many year and never ended up with someone. Either the girl wasn't interested in me, either I wasn't interested, either I end up being a wuss and don't go, either the girl ended up being a wuss and cancel.

I just don't see how anyone who isn't similar to me could or would want to be with a guy like me. Not many girls would accept the real me, lol most have problems with the sub real me, I can't imagine the whole thing.

That's why when I feel lonely I think of the only girl I knew that was about as messed up as me ( actually we both agreed that she was more than me). I just cannot find anyone ( past friends, curent friends or new friends) where I feel so connected with the person
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At least you got some intrest off of dating sites. I can't even get that, and I hear its so much easier for girls (bs)
no one who has checked out my profile has even bothered with contacting me. If I post whats wrong with me , they don't contact me and if I dont post whats wrong with me I feel like I am lying.
 
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da_illest101

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InvisaLady said:
At least you got some intrest off of dating sites. I can't even get that, and I hear its so much easier for girls (bs)
no one who has checked out my profile has even bothered with contacting me. If I post whats wrong with me , they don't contact me and if I dont post whats wrong with me I feel like I am lying.
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Sorry to hear that. I never got one reply when I was honnest. All I can tell you is to keep trying or you can give up like i did
 
InvisaLady

InvisaLady

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da_illest101 said:
Sorry to hear that. I never got one reply when I was honnest. All I can tell you is to keep trying or you can give up like i did
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Well since its free I will keep my add up but I sure won't be popping any cash for one of the pay sites! I just keep on hoping that there is someone who is really desperate out there.


Crap I got a message from a guy.
he is short, really really fat, has a beard and kids
I may have low standards, but not that low
His message- Are you really a virgin?
 
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da_illest101

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InvisaLady said:
Well since its free I will keep my add up but I sure won't be popping any cash for one of the pay sites! I just keep on hoping that there is someone who is really desperate out there.


Crap I got a message from a guy.
he is short, really really fat, has a beard and kids
I may have low standards, but not that low
His message- Are you really a virgin?
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Now now, you never know he might just be ... ok who am I kidding. No but for real he is just trying to find someone too. Though the fact that he ask that question is kinda obvious what he has in mind
 
InvisaLady

InvisaLady

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da_illest101 said:
Now now, you never know he might just be ... ok who am I kidding. No but for real he is just trying to find someone too. Though the fact that he ask that question is kinda obvious what he has in mind
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:D And to think it is the kids and beard that make it a no way in heck for me!:rolleyes:
 
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AGR

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Its been really hard those days,sorry but I only have here to vent :-(,there is someone I am kinda intersted in,I posted on her blog,at least now she knows that I exist,who knows I might do something crazy like adding her to my facebook haha,seriously why do I have to feel like crap whenever I am interested in someone,people liked me in the past,why couldnt this girl like me too?
I dont get it,why I feel this way.
 
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da_illest101

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Olhos Abertos said:
Its been really hard those days,sorry but I only have here to vent :-(,there is someone I am kinda intersted in,I posted on her blog,at least now she knows that I exist,who knows I might do something crazy like adding her to my facebook haha,seriously why do I have to feel like crap whenever I am interested in someone,people liked me in the past,why couldnt this girl like me too?
I dont get it,why I feel this way.
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because you are selling yourself short. You are thinking that this girl won't be interested for xyz reasons. I do that all the time
 
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Foxface

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When I dwell on it too much. It really brings me down. I go ranting all over the forums, talking about my life and the curse. I don't think anyone on this forums flies off the handle as much as I do.

When I'm desperate, I cuase a lot of drama for you to see. I just know how everyone loves that! :) Ha Ha.
 
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