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That's a joke, right?
Pookah
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As a female I don't think it is irrelevant. You forget for some of us it has the potential to be quite painful so female virgins have a right to be conscientious.
I don't forget. I am aware of the fact that it may be painful, but only under specific conditions which very presence might indicate a certain immaturity or uncertainty of decision, social pressure. If it's painful, the person is not ready, or has to see a gynaecologist. The latter option is very rare.
Actually for most females, the first time, or even the first time if it's been a while, is painful, no matter what the circumstances and health of the female are... or at the very least there will be acute discomfort with the first penetration.
iamthenra
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Human anatomy 101... That would be called the hymen... And if a woman has used a tampon, more than likely the hymen has already been torn. I also believe that sometimes the hymen can grow back, which would explain why it would hurt again after not having sex for a very long time....
Sorry... I'm studying to become a nurse...
iamthenra
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Time to jump start it again... "I said jump..." He he he he
As for sex... Heck yeah, bring it on! I've been ready for a meaningful long lasting relationship first, then the horizontal mambo would be awesome!
Pookah
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I can't accept this so easily. What would cause the pain? After all, the perception of physical pain is bound to the excitation of pain receptors.
Most unlikely.
The pain is in the stretching. Its like asking why childbirth is painful sheesh. The canal is made to stretch but its not a painless thing to do so. I'm sure, for instance, you may in your life have had an uncomfortable bowel movement. Now imagine the delicate tissues of a female being stretched/poked/rug-burned by the thrusting.
Its kind of a violent thing actually.There are added things too like endometriosis, prolapses, etc in addition to the hymen and non-preparedness like never having used a tampon or masturbation or not being well lubricated.
What a brutal, dispiteous world. Anyway. From past experiences I can tell that discussing this topic is similar to discussing religions. I'm happy to be a guy.The pain is in the stretching. <...> The canal is made to stretch but its not a painless thing to do so. I'm sure, for instance, you may in your life have had an uncomfortable bowel movement. Now imagine the delicate tissues of a female being stretched/poked/rug-burned by the thrusting.
iamthenra
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The pain is in the stretching. Its like asking why childbirth is painful sheesh. The canal is made to stretch but its not a painless thing to do so. I'm sure, for instance, you may in your life have had an uncomfortable bowel movement. Now imagine the delicate tissues of a female being stretched/poked/rug-burned by the thrusting.
There are added things too like endometriosis, prolapses, etc in addition to the hymen and non-preparedness like never having used a tampon or masturbation or not being well lubricated.
Oh my... I do have a thing or two to learn.. Back to the books!
As far as the sex topic goes... by the time I actually get to try sex for the first time... "It" will probably not work the way it is supposed to... Unless I pop a viagra... Of course I am assuming that I will be in my 80's and by that time I probably won't care about it anyways...
Danfalc
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I don't really understand what you mean by you cant accept that?But Pookah described it really well.Also girls have something called the hymen,which is like a thin layer of skin or membrane which is partially covering the opening of a woman.
This can actually get broken by things such as horse riding ect But for a lot of girls it can be still intact during there first sexual encounter,and has to be broken,more crudely known as popping someone's cherry.It's normal for girls to bleed,and feel quite a lot of pain especially for there first time.
Sorry to the OP for going off topic but hope that helps
Danfalc
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Danfalc
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That would be called the hymen... And if a woman has used a tampon, more than likely the hymen has already been torn. I also believe that sometimes the hymen can grow back, which would explain why it would hurt again after not having sex for a very long time....
Sorry... I'm studying to become a nurse...
It all depends Im no expert,but the hymen doesn't completely cover the opening and it's quite elastic so a tampon doesn't always break it,and I'm pretty sure once it's torn it doesn't grow back,hence why some women in certain religions have surgery to have it repaired.
L Hilla
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The pain is in the stretching. Its like asking why childbirth is painful sheesh. The canal is made to stretch but its not a painless thing to do so. I'm sure, for instance, you may in your life have had an uncomfortable bowel movement. Now imagine the delicate tissues of a female being stretched/poked/rug-burned by the thrusting.
There are added things too like endometriosis, prolapses, etc in addition to the hymen and non-preparedness like never having used a tampon or masturbation or not being well lubricated.
I actually found this very insightful lol... now im wishing for, yet dreading my first time, whenever that may be.
iamthenra
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Funny thing is, I am too! I will be 41 in 4 days and counting.... Wishing for and dreading it too... Actually scared to death of "doing it" with someone... Weird huh? I'm not a typical guy I guess....