I've seen people get stuck for years in the same place and it makes me sad because it can happen to anyone. I try to help, if I can...
But some people get so frustrated with themselves and their lives that they can't handle it, and some even end up releasing that frustration with other people.
It's especially obvious, for my experience, as some guy who always complaints about women and treating them like they are inferior just to find out it's because they can't find a partner... well, not surprised. Or like that person who always hates to see couples for the same reason, or someone who hates seeing happy people just because they can't be like that. If you feel bad, it's okay, everyone feels bad at one point or another. But if you try to make other people pay for your miseries... you deserve to be miserable, in my opinion.
I do try to help people with problems if they want to be helped, but there are certain people who I really don't want to help if they can't change. If someone is a bad person, I really don't give a damn how bad is their life, they deserve it.
I know it may not be the best attitude, but I'm tired of dealing with *******s, if they do sh*t to other people, they deserve getting a sh*it life.