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Labyrinthine
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My ex was a friend that turned into a relationship. That was eventually a really bad move, so forgive me if I don't always think that friends to relationship is the best option. ::
Any relationship can turn sour, no matter how it started. People are always growing. Sometimes that growth is apart. And even then, friends (and partners) could end up being someone totally different than you thought they were. I figure that would be the worst aspect of friends turned lovers though; losing a friend (possible mutual friends too) in the end.
It's not that I go into a friendship with expectations to one day be more, either. Quite the opposite. I want to get to know someone first and really be able to trust them and understand them. I always thought it would be something that would progress over time. I've never really had any expectation though with any guy I've come across.
Not that I should be talking relationships. I only had one and it was a disaster that I'm not certain I shall ever recover from. Still learning as I go, so excuse my inexperienced ramblings.
this_portrait
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Job interview at a salon tomorrow (one of my favorites, in fact) and then another interview at a local comedy club on Friday. Either getting a part-time position is a lot easier, or I'm just lucky, because I only started searching the other day.
EitherOr
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Best of luck to you!
Wanting to sleep, but holding out so I'll pass right out when I finally lie down.
Invisibleman
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You;re just lucky. Ive been ripping my hair out for months trying to find a part-time job.
Srijita52
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Good luck! I hope you get the job you want.
Good luck!!
MikeyC
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How could you possibly know that?? You may have missed out on a great opportunity or three!
Yep, that's exactly what happened. :
:You're ramblings are fine. What happened with your last relationship, if you don't mind me asking?
Good luck!
I wish people would never call me, too, but sometimes they do and I have to just get over it. It's not something I can avoid forever, unfortunately.
Starry
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Not many people can wake up and load up Facebook to find out that they've had a friend request from a member of two of their favourite bands (Well technically the one isn't a band, it's a "Theatre Company"...). ^_^ It also happens to be a person whose autograph I have thanks to winning a competition for a signed DVD boxset... And to think... I actually have fantasies of being real friends with the people in these "bands" hehe... Not gonna happen, of course, but still... ^_^
Srijita52
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I'm glad you sent it though. I hope you get the job.
Vampayah88
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I wonder how the hell I managed to get such a bad cold, or flu, dunno what this is. A few days after I came back from the mountains I was just fine, and then all of a sudden one evening I started having a really sore throat and headache, the soreness is gone but now I'm sneezing a lot, have a runny nose, watery eyes and coughing like crazy. I've done plenty steam inhalations, took medicine, drank that god awful onion tea but I still don't feel much better. Everyone is fine, I'm the only one with this sh*tty cold. Why me????
JuiceB
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Earlier today I thought I'd try to list the things I can do well versus the things that I'm not good at. I was hoping that in doing so I would be able to identify some positives in my daily life. Somehow it back fired. I figured out that I wasn't good at making such a list.
Why is it that everytime I try to use my brain and concentrate on something it just goes blank? When I'm not focus, my brain is like a lil radio station with music playing and everything.
Why is it that everytime I try to use my brain and concentrate on something it just goes blank? When I'm not focus, my brain is like a lil radio station with music playing and everything.
Labyrinthine
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I'm trying to get to the point where I can talk about it. I'm over him, but.. It's so embarrassing. He nonconsensually was my first, and I stupidly stayed with him. This started the abuse. Verbal mostly. He loved to tell me how fat and ugly I was, and got mad when he couldn't control me. He has a lot of issues though. He pulled a knife on me and while he claimed he wouldn't hurt me, I was freaking out since he made comments before about how he'd love to see me bleed. I started to break up with him after he badly bit me (because I called him attractive of all things). He turned around and dumped me instead. Good riddance. It was all so stupid, but I was a scared moron.
I think he's going to be a lot worse when he gets older.
By the way, it's great that you applies for the job. I hope you get it
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MikeyC
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I hear you there, man. It's tough to do. I went with "Job enquiry," but I thought that was stupid, then didn't. Eventually I had to just go with it because otherwise I would agonise over it forever.I sent a similar email yesterday, it took me most of the day to work up the courage and then forever to come up with the subject line
Thank you.
It's not any specific job, but just to see if they have jobs. Working in Australian mines is fantastic money, so I could potentially double my income. That would be insane.Oh, my. There are not enough sad faces for this.
I have heard girls stay with despicable and controlling men out of fear. Of course, no girl wants to be mistreated, but that's the reasoning I've heard, and that sounds exactly like what happened here. I'm am very glad you got out of that situation and managed to move on.
He sounds like a complete nut-case. He bites you when you call him attractive, he wields knives, he verbally abuses you...all after the sexual assault. He will get worse, and hopefully the next girl does something to him. Had/have you considered going to the police? He's a fatality waiting to happen.
Once again, I'm sorry all that happened.
Thank you.By the way, it's great that you applies for the job. I hope you get it
this_portrait
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My kitten's meows seem to be getting softer and quieter with each passing day.