My neighbor just drove his car over the brick parking median out in the lot. That thing's at least foot high and two feet across. His tire is busted and his alignment is probably shot to Hell, too. His girlfriend is out there helping him right now but she's about 8 months pregnant so she won't be able to do too much.
If I wasn't SP I'd go out there and help, but they don't need my weird aѕѕ making things worse. He was wearing his work clothes so he was on his way to his job, too. What a crappy way to start the day.
Have any of you tried a site called Social anxiety support, what are your thoughts? seems pretty active.
Even when SPW was at it's busiest, SAS was always more active than here. From what I have heard, there are lots of people there, but it is also easier to get lost in the shuffle. If forums were towns, SPW would be a small rural community, and SAS would be a huge bustling city.
Even when SPW was at it's busiest, SAS was always more active than here. From what I have heard, there are lots of people there, but it is also easier to get lost in the shuffle. If forums were towns, SPW would be a small rural community, and SAS would be a huge bustling city.
Brilliant description of the difference between the 2 sites there, vj!! Spot on. :thumbup:
I have tried SAS twice over the years, but i always gravitate back here.
Being in SAS felt like trying to get through the crowd at a Japanese train station, lol. :bigsmile:
I prefer this, even though occasionally you can end up being the only person on the platform, lol .
Brilliant description of the difference between the 2 sites there, vj!! Spot on. :thumbup:
I have tried SAS twice over the years, but i always gravitate back here.
Being in SAS felt like trying to get through the crowd at a Japanese train station, lol.
Yeah it gave me that impression, maybe i'll give it a try, tho i'll never leave this place (sorry guys, you wont get rid of me that easily). This is ma home.
Can we please have more "Thanks" buttons to use each day in this site? It is so extremely frustrating having to ration out the tiny amount we get to use each day. :sad:
It's hard to describe Blue, yet simple at the same time.
I hate living this simple life, being a slave to the system. My whole being yearns for more. I feel as if I have been born in the wrong time or something..I feel so alone all the time. Even in a crowded room to which I was invited, ppl chatting to me, I'm smiling at them but my heart is literally breaking. I'm tired of wearing a mask of social conformity
I can't bear this. I can't do this.
It's hard to describe Blue, yet simple at the same time.
I hate living this simple life, being a slave to the system. My whole being yearns for more. I feel as if I have been born in the wrong time or something..I feel so alone all the time. Even in a crowded room to which I was invited, ppl chatting to me, I'm smiling at them but my heart is literally breaking. I'm tired of wearing a mask of social conformity
I can't bear this. I can't do this.
Very sad to read what you are feeling/thinking atm because frustratingly, there is no "cure" for what you are going through...Except maybe finding a new way to distract your mind? Distract it from thinking about what is making it suffer? :idontknow:
I could have written your post myself, word for word. There must be lots of other people out there who are also sick of wearing a mask to conform with the social obstacle course we are forced to jump/run through on a daily basis.
Just surviving, not really being allowed to actually "live" our lives. I suppose that is why there are so many people on Antidepressants/medication now.
If I was a doctor seeing society crumbling under the financial/housing/work pressures that it is at the moment, and having to hand out pills to help ease people's mental pain, I would not be able to handle it. It must be very soul destroying for them. Well some of them, at least the ones that are not jaded.
It does not help that family, community are so disconnected today. Back when they used to have regular local dances in the town halls, at least people could talk face to face with their neighbours, friends and build up close relationships that just don't get formed today because no one has enough spare time to develop the strong bonds that locals used to form at those regular town hall dances etc.
My Grandmother met her husband at one of those local dances back in the 1920's. She said so many people used to meet who they ended up marrying at those community get-togethers.
Can we please have more "Thanks" buttons to use each day in this site? It is so extremely frustrating having to ration out the tiny amount we get to use each day. :sad:
Yours sincerely,
BlueDays
Pleading will get us nothing, more serious action is required.
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