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NathanielWingatePeaslee

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How come some people barely do anything and everyone loves them and flocks to them, but other people have to work really hard (but make it look like they're not working hard at all) to get people to like/take an interest in them? I don't get it. It's not only in real life I've noticed this, it's even on the Internet! Damn humans and their tricky social nuances...

Whatevah.

I suppose it could come off as desperate... But I'm not out to get everyone to like me. I have people who do like me, so that's good, haha. What I'm talking about is more like... when you start a new job, or join a new site, or group, or whatever. Most people would like to make friends there or at least have people to talk to, I would assume. But it seems you have to have "it" - whatever this elusive "it" is, I have yet to figure it out, maybe some sort of invisible magical magnetic quality... I do have friends - or friendish people - out there, but I still feel like I'm lacking "it". It isn't easy for me to make friends. It seems to take effort. I guess that's okay, but sometimes it leaves me feeling like I'm unlikeable... :idontknow:
Huh?

You're one of the most noticed and liked people on this site, as far as online goes.

Offline, well you were just talking about meeting some guy on your very first day and you're already thinking of exchanging contact info.

What am I missing here?

:confused:
 
Huh?

You're one of the most noticed and liked people on this site, as far as online goes.

Offline, well you were just talking about meeting some guy on your very first day and you're already thinking of exchanging contact info.

What am I missing here?

:confused:

Erm... think you have me confused with someone else, haha.

But yeah I guess it was just a temporary insecurity thing when I posted that, just ignore me. Overall today WAS a good day. There was a very small thing I didn't mention that happened at work today but I'm not going to bother talking about it. I think that was what had me down but I'm okay, I'm just being silly.

Sorry guys, it's no biggie, really. Thanks for replying though :p
 

KiaKaha

Banned
Stay out of my dojo old man

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Kiwong

Well-known member
I seem to be at my most happiest in my own company. When I am around people often I feel absolutely miserable.
 

Starry

Well-known member
Fresh air makes me feel so much better. I still have my terrible aching head and stinging eyes (caused by stress and upset over the state of the world - it's been bothering me for a week or so but has been worse since Friday), but they've eased a little since going out for a walk... And coincidentally we arrived back home just as a delivery van (which we were not expecting until tomorrow) turned up.
 

Duzmiu

Well-known member
really angry right now and not sure why...as soon as i remembered i have to go see my ******* of an advisor at the job centre tomorow i just started picturing myself shouting at him then smashing his face into a desk over and over again. now every little thing is pissing me off so much im starting to fear going outside tomorrow incase i lose my temper.

took me ages to get my anger and anxiety in check and was able to go about as normal but now just at the thought of having to see my advisor at the job centre im feeling just as bad as i did last year.
 

drganon

Well-known member
Frustrated. Windows 8 is the worst operating system ever. I had no choice but to get a new computer because my old one pretty much died. The only good thing is that at the very least I can use a full version of excel again. Trying to do stat problems like finding the standard deviation with a calculator and pencil and paper takes way too long.
 

GhastlyCC

Well-known member
There's this girl that I've been talking to.(An internet thing,But she lives in the same city,in the same state.)
I've "known" and liked her for a while now,But she never seemed interested in talking to me until recently,when she messaged me,and we've been talking every day since.
At first,I was excited...felt like I was in the goddamn twilight zone.
I was finally..maybe...getting somewhere with her.
I've gotten to know her ALOT more than I did before.
And my fondness for her had grown.
But we ended up in a conversation about past experiences with various things..And it made me realize that she has done SO MUCH in her life.
She's really quite incredible.
And me...It makes me kind of shy away from talking to her anymore.
It sounds ridiculous....But I feel that the fact that I've been a recluse hermit for the bulk of my 23 years,Who has done nearly nothing,makes me........inadequate for somebody like her.

I'm a loser..I need to sift through the trash heaps rather than shoot for the stars.
 

ImNotMyIllness

Well-known member
There's this girl that I've been talking to.(An internet thing,But she lives in the same city,in the same state.)
I've "known" and liked her for a while now,But she never seemed interested in talking to me until recently,when she messaged me,and we've been talking every day since.
At first,I was excited...felt like I was in the goddamn twilight zone.
I was finally..maybe...getting somewhere with her.
I've gotten to know her ALOT more than I did before.
And my fondness for her had grown.
But we ended up in a conversation about past experiences with various things..And it made me realize that she has done SO MUCH in her life.
She's really quite incredible.
And me...It makes me kind of shy away from talking to her anymore.
It sounds ridiculous....But I feel that the fact that I've been a recluse hermit for the bulk of my 23 years,Who has done nearly nothing,makes me........inadequate for somebody like her.

I'm a loser..I need to sift through the trash heaps rather than shoot for the stars.

Actually, you need to strike the iron while it's hot. If she's interested, go for it. A girl like that will teach you a lot!
 

MikeyC

Well-known member
There's this girl that I've been talking to.(An internet thing,But she lives in the same city,in the same state.)
I've "known" and liked her for a while now,But she never seemed interested in talking to me until recently,when she messaged me,and we've been talking every day since.
At first,I was excited...felt like I was in the goddamn twilight zone.
I was finally..maybe...getting somewhere with her.
I've gotten to know her ALOT more than I did before.
And my fondness for her had grown.
But we ended up in a conversation about past experiences with various things..And it made me realize that she has done SO MUCH in her life.
She's really quite incredible.
And me...It makes me kind of shy away from talking to her anymore.
It sounds ridiculous....But I feel that the fact that I've been a recluse hermit for the bulk of my 23 years,Who has done nearly nothing,makes me........inadequate for somebody like her.

I'm a loser..I need to sift through the trash heaps rather than shoot for the stars.
You know, I can relate all too well with this in regards to the girl I'm currently fond of, but I won't get into detail because this is about you.

I will say this: she wants to chat to you, whether or not you have an interesting past. She may have done heaps with her life, but maybe she's just looking for a cool guy no matter what he is or how he got to where he is today. In case you haven't clicked on: you are that cool guy she's after. :)

Don't diminish your conversations because you know her past lifestyle - it's not really fair on her if she's interested and wants you to talk to her. You never know what could happen, so keep it up.

ImNotMyIllness is correct, too: she could teach you a thing or two, and that's absolutely a positive thing!
 

Srijita52

Well-known member
There's this girl that I've been talking to.(An internet thing,But she lives in the same city,in the same state.)
I've "known" and liked her for a while now,But she never seemed interested in talking to me until recently,when she messaged me,and we've been talking every day since.
At first,I was excited...felt like I was in the goddamn twilight zone.
I was finally..maybe...getting somewhere with her.
I've gotten to know her ALOT more than I did before.
And my fondness for her had grown.
But we ended up in a conversation about past experiences with various things..And it made me realize that she has done SO MUCH in her life.
She's really quite incredible.
And me...It makes me kind of shy away from talking to her anymore.
It sounds ridiculous....But I feel that the fact that I've been a recluse hermit for the bulk of my 23 years,Who has done nearly nothing,makes me........inadequate for somebody like her.

I'm a loser..I need to sift through the trash heaps rather than shoot for the stars.

Actually, you need to strike the iron while it's hot. If she's interested, go for it. A girl like that will teach you a lot!

You know, I can relate all too well with this in regards to the girl I'm currently fond of, but I won't get into detail because this is about you.

I will say this: she wants to chat to you, whether or not you have an interesting past. She may have done heaps with her life, but maybe she's just looking for a cool guy no matter what he is or how he got to where he is today. In case you haven't clicked on: you are that cool guy she's after. :)

Don't diminish your conversations because you know her past lifestyle - it's not really fair on her if she's interested and wants you to talk to her. You never know what could happen, so keep it up.

ImNotMyIllness is correct, too: she could teach you a thing or two, and that's absolutely a positive thing!

I agree. She's interested in you regardless of your past. You don't have be super interesting or do tons of stuff to be liked by someone. Go for it!
 

KiaKaha

Banned
Just don't get your hopes up. Disappointment is always around the corner. Rule number one of life: Expect nothing.
 
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