Odo
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It exists, though:
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I think men are more likely to admit it because overall it's still more socially acceptable for men to be slutty.
open relationship/open marriage-thoughts?
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It exists, though:
Polyandry - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
I think men are more likely to admit it because overall it's still more socially acceptable for men to be slutty.
Odo
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I'm pretty sure that everyone has reproductive urges.
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I do not understand this bit. Could you please clarify it for me?
MollyBeGood
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Thanks
The real feeling here is "Do what you want, and don't hurt others, if you DO then it's crap."
wear a condom, have fun etc...
Kiwong
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I'm open to a relationship.
:bigsmile::bigsmile::applause:
dottie
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more civilized, pretty much. maybe i didn't word that well, it was pretty early... i just think it's animalistic, uncivilized to hump anyone with a shortsided consideration or blatant disregard to social/psychological/spiritual(?) ramifications. i'm too lazy and don't have enough time to persuade on the interwebs. everyone has an opinion, this is mine.
Bronson99
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In dottie's profile it lists gender as male. (If that is what you're referring to?)
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Saraswati
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I wouldn't be okay with it.
I have a boyfriend and the thought of us seeing other people would not make me happy.
We all need different people around us that satisfy our diverse needs (talking about this, talking about that, going to a yoga class, going to a football match etc.) but not in a romantical way. That what friends are for. And all the other people in your life.
I see the need for having to be with more people than your partner as being somehow unsatisfied. Wouldn't that mean that there is something wrong with your relationship?
Or with yourself? Maybe you're a nymphomaniac, maybe you can't deal with the issues in your relationship and take the easy way out, maybe you are not mature enough and not ready for this kind of a commitment....
People should really take a look at themselves. Whatever problems they have (in a relationship and out of them), they have it because something is not right. But looking deep inside yourself is what most people are afraid to do. They run from it. They run from the most intimate relationship they have because they are afraid of seeing themselves for what they are. They want to mantain status quo, they want to keep their familiar life, familiar habits etc.
I do not mind other people being happy in that kind of a relationships but I would have a problem with it.
Being in a relationship for me is to be with someone who makes you happy and makes you realize who you are. Staying in a relationship that is really intimate can change you for the best if you are strong enough to stay in it even when things go bad.
I have a boyfriend and the thought of us seeing other people would not make me happy.
We all need different people around us that satisfy our diverse needs (talking about this, talking about that, going to a yoga class, going to a football match etc.) but not in a romantical way. That what friends are for. And all the other people in your life.
I see the need for having to be with more people than your partner as being somehow unsatisfied. Wouldn't that mean that there is something wrong with your relationship?
Or with yourself? Maybe you're a nymphomaniac, maybe you can't deal with the issues in your relationship and take the easy way out, maybe you are not mature enough and not ready for this kind of a commitment....
People should really take a look at themselves. Whatever problems they have (in a relationship and out of them), they have it because something is not right. But looking deep inside yourself is what most people are afraid to do. They run from it. They run from the most intimate relationship they have because they are afraid of seeing themselves for what they are. They want to mantain status quo, they want to keep their familiar life, familiar habits etc.
I do not mind other people being happy in that kind of a relationships but I would have a problem with it.
Being in a relationship for me is to be with someone who makes you happy and makes you realize who you are. Staying in a relationship that is really intimate can change you for the best if you are strong enough to stay in it even when things go bad.
My thoughts on it? Not for me. I don't see it working the way it is "supposed" to, for anyone. When feelings get involved - and they will - things inevitably go south. I don't even think most guys would REALLY go for that, they like to think they would and act like big ol' studs, but in reality, they have hearts too and I don't think they could have an open marriage with a person that they truly loved.
Flanscho
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No, I do not have a problem with people not sharing my opinion.
I have a problem with people who give a **** about what other people feel, and instead simply claim that they know how everybody else on the planet feel.
I have a problem with people who wish other people to get sick, in some cases even so sick that they die. And why? Because they don't live the way you want them to.
It sickens me that someone like you runs around, calling it lies what other people say, claiming that only you know the truth, and then want them to become ill.
It's as if you run around and seriously want people dead for wearing clothes of a color you dislike, regardless whether they actually wear that color, because you take a dump on what they say.
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