philly2bits
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I read this book not too long ago:
Amazon.com: The Likeability Factor: How to Boost Your L-Factor and Achieve Your Life's Dreams (9781400080496): Tim Sanders: Books
I won't summarize, but the first review has the main point I'll cover.
This statement is probably the main point of the book and I agree with it. Think about it. Think of any circumstance in your life. How much did you alone play, and how much did other people play into it? Odds are on the side of at least 1 other person acting either favorably or unfavorably on your behalf to get you into those circumstances. The book contends that a huge deciding factor between the two is likeability. Without it, you are basically damned to a miserable life. You will get no where in the world and no one will care that you don't.
While likeability by no means makes it certain your life will be miserable, it helps in the fact that people will be there for you. To carry the weight when it become too much. For a shoulder to cry on. To pick you up when you fall.
Amazon.com: The Likeability Factor: How to Boost Your L-Factor and Achieve Your Life's Dreams (9781400080496): Tim Sanders: Books
I won't summarize, but the first review has the main point I'll cover.
"The choices you make don't shape your life as much as the choices other people make about you."
This statement is probably the main point of the book and I agree with it. Think about it. Think of any circumstance in your life. How much did you alone play, and how much did other people play into it? Odds are on the side of at least 1 other person acting either favorably or unfavorably on your behalf to get you into those circumstances. The book contends that a huge deciding factor between the two is likeability. Without it, you are basically damned to a miserable life. You will get no where in the world and no one will care that you don't.
While likeability by no means makes it certain your life will be miserable, it helps in the fact that people will be there for you. To carry the weight when it become too much. For a shoulder to cry on. To pick you up when you fall.