psych
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The age could be a factor but I guarantee you the "doesn't want kids" thing is not working against you.
If anything not wanting kids should work for you. A lot of guys run when they hear a woman has a kid or want a kid.
The main thing is profiles are so petty compared to pictures. Pictures are practically everything on dating sites. Most men will just look at your pic and decide whether to message you.
That was another issue. Guys message me based on a picture alone. Most never even read the profile...
I know from experience that dating a religious guy is pointless for me. There is simply no option for anything lasting. & The arguments are enough to bring on a heart attack. So, I immediately rule out guys that are religious.
Another issue is country/pop/rap music... This will not make me popular, but I don't care.
I know from past experience that if we drive each other nuts with our choice in music it really kills things in the peaceful shared downtime department. I don't want to have to wear earbuds just to chill to my tunes. He shouldn't have to either.
I know most guys on here don't want kids... But, though a broadcasting of how bad you want kids will scare men off up front like that...
Many men who say up front that they don't want children are actually really undecided... Like my ex, who now has two.