forksandspoons
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First of all, Im not judging anybody, you know this.
Reading a lot of posts here, it seems like many people don't have friends. Have you ever had a core group of friends in your life? Or did the SA prevent that since you were little?
I ask, because, I have always had friends. I wasn't the most popular kid, but I ran with a good crowd of real friends, and had a lot of strong acquaintances/minor friends. Many of which were the "cool kids" and athletes. Im not trying to brag, I don't consider that an accomplishment anyway, just providing some background.
I was able to make so many friends because I my SA didn't happen until more recently. I didn't even know what it was then. All that time in school seeing kids sitting alone and not being social, I didn't understand why. Not that they necessarily had SA, but Im sure there was someone in my school with it.
Now I am 20 and have had SA for about a year. I have barely been talking to any of my friends, even the ones I live with. They still want to hang out with me though, the friendships aren't completely dead. Reading posts here, I feel like such a POS, that I am taking them for granted. I never realized how important it is to have friends.
I fear that if I keep living like this, I will eventually have no friends, and that scares the **** out of me.
Reading a lot of posts here, it seems like many people don't have friends. Have you ever had a core group of friends in your life? Or did the SA prevent that since you were little?
I ask, because, I have always had friends. I wasn't the most popular kid, but I ran with a good crowd of real friends, and had a lot of strong acquaintances/minor friends. Many of which were the "cool kids" and athletes. Im not trying to brag, I don't consider that an accomplishment anyway, just providing some background.
I was able to make so many friends because I my SA didn't happen until more recently. I didn't even know what it was then. All that time in school seeing kids sitting alone and not being social, I didn't understand why. Not that they necessarily had SA, but Im sure there was someone in my school with it.
Now I am 20 and have had SA for about a year. I have barely been talking to any of my friends, even the ones I live with. They still want to hang out with me though, the friendships aren't completely dead. Reading posts here, I feel like such a POS, that I am taking them for granted. I never realized how important it is to have friends.
I fear that if I keep living like this, I will eventually have no friends, and that scares the **** out of me.
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