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Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Envious o' folk who grow in somewhat stable family household...

By that ah mean, a family that actually gave a fuck about how you felt. Not one, like mine, where yer constantly undermined n' telt yer wrong for expressing yer feeling. Or shouted down n' told tae "fuck off!" when ya try to resolve an argument by talking rather than shouting.
 
I had such a great and fun birthday trip, but I am sad again. I’m (yet again) dating someone who doesn’t give me much attention. I hate how that can just ruin everything for me. I require tons of attention from my romantic partners, I don’t know what my problem is :(
 

PugofCrydee

You want to know how I got these scars?
I had such a great and fun birthday trip, but I am sad again. I’m (yet again) dating someone who doesn’t give me much attention. I hate how that can just ruin everything for me. I require tons of attention from my romantic partners, I don’t know what my problem is :(
Have you done any research on the subject Sarah? In the end you could run run the risk of smothering your partner. Both people in a relationship need room for themselves and room to breathe.
I myself enjoy lots of attention form my partner and I like to give lots to her. But there are times when I just need..to let my own mind have space.
 
Have you done any research on the subject Sarah? In the end you could run run the risk of smothering your partner. Both people in a relationship need room for themselves and room to breathe.
I myself enjoy lots of attention form my partner and I like to give lots to her. But there are times when I just need..to let my own mind have space.
I totally get that and need time, too, but I haven’t spent time with him since last Thursday. Our schedules don’t align and the last time I saw him was Wednesday before I left for 5 minutes. He’s barely texted me or said he missed me... My mom and sister’s husbands were calling them to say how much they missed them and I received no warm reception. It makes me feel even worse about myself; like, I’m not worth it :(
 

PugofCrydee

You want to know how I got these scars?
I totally get that and need time, too, but I haven’t spent time with him since last Thursday. Our schedules don’t align and the last time I saw him was Wednesday before I left for 5 minutes. He’s barely texted me or said he missed me... My mom and sister’s husbands were calling them to say how much they missed them and I received no warm reception. It makes me feel even worse about myself; like, I’m not worth it :(
Oh, fair enough. Sorry your original post didn't say those things.
Well, yea it can be tough. Maybe just let him be until he comes to you?
 
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