How are you feeling?

[Invisibleman]

I feel like such a loser.I wish I could just stay in my room forever.

 

[MrJones]

Don't Push So hard On you! Start for litle steps, start for what u can : )

Problem comes when there is nothing I can do...

^^^You are a good guy Mr Jones. You are intelligent, likeable, thoughtful and good looking. You are most certainly not a waste.

People enjoy your posts and appreciate your presence. I know I do.

Thanks Shykiwi. I am nothing of those things, but thanks anyway.

Can't. Can't defines the past, not the future. There is nothing you can't do, or at least try. You can choose not to do things, but it's not because you can't. The decision has not been made up for you, it is up to you whether or not you want any of those things to become a reality. I say you can, if you want to.

I know I can always try, and I do. But I fail. And this time, the most important thing I've ever tried to do... I failed again. Miserably. And I can't stand it. I don't want to keep being like this. I want to but I can't. Things are complicated sometimes, and there is nothing I can do about it.

You're a good guy, Jones. I don't understand why you're so hard on yourself. ::

I always try to give my opinion to everyone. I try to be honest and sincere and I try to do the same with myself, and it's just what I see.

Ugly again. I need some beauty sleep.

You are not ugly, Marie, I can tell you that. I know it's a bit late reply, but I am ugly and it I know it hurts a lot to see everyone laughing at my face because of it. You are not ugly at all, you are very pretty.

I hate the way I speak.. I am boring...I have the articulation of a fish. I need to lower my expectations. If I have no desires I wont be disappointed and will no longer be frustrated.

Me too, I can't ever express what I really want to say. Everytime I want to say something I come up as stupid or creepy or something. I guess that's why people who know me will never like me.

I'm feeling... distant. Forgotten. Kinda sad actually. I haven't heard from a certain friend in a while, and even though I've tried to make contact I still get nothing. I'm starting to wonder if they even care anymore. We haven't seen each other in over a year, haven't actually talked in over 3 months. And 3 months ago when we did talk, it was only her thanking me for the birthday card. No, "Hey, how's it going?", "How are you?", "I haven't talked to you in a while." I usually hear of/see her (on Facebook) hanging with other people, and that's great, but can't she take at least 5 mins. of her time to message me?

I know it hurts to see people you care about that they don't care about you. I hope your friend will see in the end that you are a great person and will come to be your friend again.

Disappointed, mad, and worthless. But probably I'm just being an idiot.

Me too, I feel ashamed all the time because of it and I know it's all my stupidity.

 

[KiaKaha]

Well... I have been sitting here at the message screen intending to quote and reply to some of the members last few posts here... but.... I feel too self conscious to do it, in case my response is wrong/misinterpreted/stupid... So I wont.

Instead I will just simply say... that I am feeling like I cant really connect with anyone at the moment.

I hope everyone is well. Sorry for being a weirdo lately.

 

[MrJones]

Well... I have been sitting here at the message screen intending to quote and reply to some of the members last few posts here... but.... I feel too self conscious to do it, in case my response is wrong/misinterpreted/stupid... So I wont.

Instead I will just simply say... that I am feeling like I cant really connect with anyone at the moment.

I hope everyone is well. Sorry for being a weirdo lately.

You never seemed a weirdo to me.

And don't worry, I don't connect with people either. You are not alone here.

 

[anomicdeer]

I can't find the thread for it but if anyone wants to add me on FB go ahead. I haven't been on SPW in a while and I should just come here. I will try but I still don't come back on a daily basis like I use to.
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003340651259

 

[anomicdeer]

I felt so great earlier this year but I've gotten really bad when I started dating again. I'm just trying to focus on myself again and also would like some support or at least attention(attention is important, I'm not the one who claim I have a mental problem for attention, I don't even talk about it other than here and to people with SA on FB) so I can feel like I'm being supported.

 

[vj288]

Unwanted. I've done all the math and know it's irrational, I just can't shake the feeling. I didn't even think being wanted was something important to me.

 

[BlueDays]

Unwanted. I've done all the math and know it's irrational, I just can't shake the feeling. I didn't even think being wanted was something important to me.

Is it your family or friends making you feel like that vj?
That is a bad feeling to experience::, I hope it does not last too long for you.
You are very wanted here in SPW you know!

 

[EasySkanking]

^If it helps, I want you vj

wait...

If only you looked like Fiona... . God, the world is unfair.

 

[MrJones]

Unwanted. I've done all the math and know it's irrational, I just can't shake the feeling. I didn't even think being wanted was something important to me.

You are not unwanted here. I don't know what triggered that post, but I hope you start feeling better soon vj.

 

[vj288]

Is it your family or friends making you feel like that vj?
That is a bad feeling to experience::, I hope it does not last too long for you.
You are very wanted here in SPW you know!

^If it helps, I want you vj

wait...

If only you looked like Fiona... . God, the world is unfair.

You are not unwanted here. I don't know what triggered that post, but I hope you start feeling better soon vj.

Thanks guys (oh and it does easy )

It's not anything my friends or family have done, I'm just picking at little things and blowing them out of proportion, making assumptions and jumping to conclusions. I know that these feelings have no real foundation, and I'm just waiting for them to go away.

 

[Fighter86]

Like crap...bad evening yesterday, just plain tired really, feeling hopeless and helpless too too.

 

[chickenmaryjane]

Right now i feel mixed up, confused and tired, i got about 5 hours broken sleep last night which dosent help. Sorry for the non-posotive post

My feelings exactly!

 

[she1slander]

I'm sorta in a neutral state right now. Sometimes I'm a little apprehensive about things when I don't need to be and sometimes I can't explain what else it could be because I'm just plain tired 'cause my sleeping habits are SO unbelievably wacked. I overslept and that should leave me feeling somewhat tired but not dizzy. So maybe I'll just say, "I'm just ::fine."

 

[she1slander]

Thanks guys (oh and it does easy )

It's not anything my friends or family have done, I'm just picking at little things and blowing them out of proportion, making assumptions and jumping to conclusions. I know that these feelings have no real foundation, and I'm just waiting for them to go away.

Sometimes when you just do something else... whatever it could be (ie: cleaning or taking a stroll around the park if there's one nearby), would make you feel better. Usually what you're feeling is the result of what's been on your mind lately. And so if you don't want your thoughts to consume you and eventually make you feel crabby, just do something. It can be something you find simple but relaxing like stacking little snowflake ornaments on top of the other to make a tower. (that's one of the things I did and it helped!)

 

[Invisibleman]

I might be having a bout of generalized anxiety. I feel so strange and afraid of something,i dont know what. I feel so guilty and I dont know why,its similar to the feeling when im supposed to be doing a project or homework and im playing videogames instead. I feel like im supposed to be doing something. I feel like im about to have a panic attack.

 

[Graeme1988]

I don't know how I feel anymore, to be honest.

My family is as dysfunctional as ever. My oldest sister no longer gives a f*%k about me or the rest of the family. I wish could take my mind off the things happening around me, but I can't. ::

 

[Kat]

After taking on the advice from DeadmanWalking and Srijita52 I’m feeling much better today

I wish some things were better for everyone but you really are breath of fresh air.

 

[planemo]

I feel tired and overworked, but I have nothing to show for my efforts.
I feel lost, but I haven't ventured anywhere.
I feel bright, but I lack common sense.
I feel real, but I live a lie.

(basically i just feel like crap)

 

[Silatuyok]

I'm pretty furious. Some anonymous weirdo called my bf's work today and told them that he had been saying bad things about the company on his facebook page. He hadn't, of course, but they felt compelled to investigate the matter. You just have to wonder what kind of a person would do something so malicious, especially to someone who never shows anything but kindness and respect to other people, even those who don't deserve it.
I guess it just goes to show how careful you have to be with who your friends are, and what information you choose to make public.