How are you feeling?

vexatiousmind

vexatiousmind

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pingu07 said:
feel sad that im a bad communicator. sometime i dont want to talk just so i dont hear myself speak.

wow.. yet again.. new page ...hmmm.. is this trying to tell me something? o_o
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It takes time to be able to delvope the skill of speaking. Keep working on it, you will get better ; )

and First is always an honor:D
 
vexatiousmind

vexatiousmind

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pingu07 said:
^ thanks vexatiousmind ... i think i just need practice.
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Same here, lately everytime I say something awkward I don't stop talking. Just keep the ball moving and change the mood.

Even if it completely obvious that you changed the subject because you made it awkward, most people roll with it.

Do skype with anyone on here? That helps too, I barley get on though. If you want to add me, PM me anytime:)
 
vexatiousmind

vexatiousmind

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pingu07 said:
^ thanks twiggle! and im glad u feeling better :>



I think you communicate pretty well. My problem is im slow-minded and cannot think quick enough for a reply rather than Okay. Okay is probably my most common used word. :p (how sad is this ::(:)

but thats a good idea to change subject, i would try do that! Thx :)

and nope i dont skype. i have skype but i dont use it :p ... dunno why i downloaded it.. too severly sa.. to skype.. but i think it helps. I just look awful on camera thats why i dont like opening my webcam :p .. but maybe one day i be brave, i'll pm u when that day comes! :)
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You seem quick witted, and friendly on here. :)

Anxiety can block thoughts in RL though. I have the same problem. Just say whatever you can think of. Saying something always makes it less awkward then silence
 
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Rembrandt Broam

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pingu07 said:
and nope i dont skype. i have skype but i dont use it :p ... dunno why i downloaded it.. too severly sa.. to skype.. but i think it helps.
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I'm the same when it comes things like Skype, Pingu. That kind of realtime communication makes me nervous. I should probably try to use it though, as I'll never get over the anxiety of it if I don't try.
 
pebblesdundee

pebblesdundee

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Pissed off that I can't express my feelings through facial expressions. i can when talking, but otherwise, I can't at al. And thanks to that someone close to me thinks they're boring me.

Screw social anxiety and lack of experience in social situations ::(:
 
Kathryn.fr

Kathryn.fr

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One of my roomies just told me, after being all nice for about 5 minutes "Btw our lease is up in August, we're moving into a studio downtown. Just a heads up." think it's her way of saying good luck.
 
BlueDays

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Kathryn.fr said:
One of my roomies just told me, after being all nice for about 5 minutes "Btw our lease is up in August, we're moving into a studio downtown. Just a heads up." think it's her way of saying good luck.
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Thats always hard to hear when you discover you have to find a new place to live :/
But look on the bright side, at least you won't have to clean up their excessive mess anymore!:)






I am feeling indifferent today :s
 
Kathryn.fr

Kathryn.fr

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No I wont. But this always seems to happen when I find someone I really like, I get kicked out of where ever I live and have to move back to my dads or something. Just not fair.
 
dottie

dottie

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why is it the louder you are the more you are valued? it's like quantity, not quality.

people are obnoxious and exhausting. glad to be ALONE.
 
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Man on the Moon

Man on the Moon

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I need to learn how to be a better conversationalist. Naturally I am very internal. I have a habit of selecting people I only want to speak with. You see, I am very protective of my ego. When I don't feel comfortable around someone, I will not utter a word. I will zone them out. I will be lost in my own world.
This is a habit I am trying to break though. Privately, I try to convince myself to open up more. To be more trusting of others. But of course, a habit is hard to lose. Sometimes I feel frustrated because I am unable to relate with certain types of people...

I feel like I will begin to rant off topic, so I will stop here.
 
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