Thanks for the happy birthday;)
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I never liked my birthday parties and I always went there for 5 minutes and then go away to my room again (when I was a little kid, now I do nothing at all lol) and my family were okay with it (I think).Agent_Violet said: ↑that's what *I* have been saying. it's like i'm invisible when it comes to people respecting my wishes. My husband's family(his mother mostly) just can't understand how someone would want to just receive a birthday card in the mail without having a huge celebration at their home for the day. UGH.
You can't get out of having these people force themselves on you...unless I fake my own death and then mysteriously come back to life after my birthday, I'm stuck dealing with these people in my house all afternoon...and knowing his mother, even if I faked my own death, she'd reschedule the party for after I miraculously came back to life:rolleyes:
Some people just like to party no matter the reason, so maybe if you go there just for a while and then you sneak out they won't even notice :😛:
You can try to tell them that they can have all the parties they want but you won't go, and then you won't feel bad for not going because you already warned them 😛
I dont know... so many avoiding techniques... everyone a little more lame than the previous one, but still works 😀
MrJones said: ↑I never liked my birthday parties and I always went there for 5 minutes and then go away to my room again (when I was a little kid, now I do nothing at all lol) and my family were okay with it (I think).
^This is exactly what i used to do. My birthday party was more of an occasion for my brother and his friends to enjoy. Now i usually spend my birthday having a complete time alone and avoiding all social contacts(except for my family) lol
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Happy Birthday!!
today is good... I would like to help anyone here today if possible. Seems any time I am feeling ok I want to pass it on right away (pay it foward).
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Physically, I'm freezing at the moment due to a change in weather where I'm at. Also feeling stomach cramps coming on.
Mentally, while I feel motivated, I just want my day to end.
Mentally, while I feel motivated, I just want my day to end.
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Really intimidated and wants to hide!
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Tired and stressed again,but not too bad.
I remember I was in French this afternoon...or history, and I was looking at all my friends laughing and talking. I felt like an outsider (always felt like this), that thought in itself made me realise, if I have to be here much longer, I will end up killing myself.
I remember I was in French this afternoon...or history, and I was looking at all my friends laughing and talking. I felt like an outsider (always felt like this), that thought in itself made me realise, if I have to be here much longer, I will end up killing myself.
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this_portrait said: ↑Physically, I'm freezing at the moment due to a change in weather where I'm at.
It's crazy, isn't it? I'm in heaven, though. 🙂
Optimistically hopeful, but a little frustrated due to a possibly infected hip piercing.
I feel tired and drained.
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Hoping that my girlfriend will forgive me for something we're both guilty of. I really f*cking hate having Asperger's syndrome in cases like this...
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****ing storms !
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Cold. It's so cold and rainy here. Bleh. But I'd rather have this than all that hot, yucky weather last week.
^ I love it when it's cold and rainy , i feel less guilty for staying locked up inside , plus i love storms , it makes me want to go crazy and start dancing. I'm so excited for you !
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Like ******* ****.
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Freakin terrified. My hearts pounding and im pacing waiting to get a phone call that will involve me talking to a very intimidating man.
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Invisibleman said: ↑Freakin terrified. My hearts pounding and im pacing waiting to get a phone call that will involve me talking to a very intimidating man.
I'm sorry, Invisibleman!
I am pretty terrified too...supposed to go to class, but I feel unprepared, and I think I will miss it.
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lilmutegirl said: ↑I'm sorry, Invisibleman!
I am pretty terrified too...supposed to go to class, but I feel unprepared, and I think I will miss it.
haha yeah I had that feeling this morning.it hasnt been a good day lol
unsatisfied.with everything.