How are you feeling?

KiaKaha

Banned
I have been socializing.

Drained, tired, paranoid. Feeling a little unhappy.

I will never understand what it is about me that makes people feel uncomfortable. People can sense my discomfort - and that makes me feel bad.

I am getting that old feeling that people really hate me.
 

Srijita52

Well-known member
I have been socializing.

Drained, tired, paranoid. Feeling a little unhappy.

I will never understand what it is about me that makes people feel uncomfortable. People can sense my discomfort - and that makes me feel bad.

I am getting that old feeling that people really hate me.
I'm sorry Kia, I'd never hate you.
 

hidwell

Well-known member
I have been socializing.

Drained, tired, paranoid. Feeling a little unhappy.

I will never understand what it is about me that makes people feel uncomfortable. People can sense my discomfort - and that makes me feel bad.

I am getting that old feeling that people really hate me.

Well all I can say is that you are very well liked on this forum, you have tremendous empathy with other people, and you deserve some happiness.:)
 

KiaKaha

Banned
Well all I can say is that you are very well liked on this forum, you have tremendous empathy with other people, and you deserve some happiness.:)

Thanks - yeah .... empathy. It's a shame I cant stand humanity otherwise that would be a good thing. I like people.... but I cant stand them at the same time...

Well what do you think is "off" about you?

That is something I probably shouldnt get into right now - could turn into a rant. I give off some vibe... I make people feel weird. I dont know.
 

Nathália

Well-known member
I do not know why dem hate you Kia or why you would be intimidating.
I don't randomly hate people, so I'm wondering why others pick up things from you? I'm not just trying to be nice and be say things because I'm good with you, but I really think you're handsome and yea that would intimidate me, but I would never think of you any less.





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I have been socializing.

Drained, tired, paranoid. Feeling a little unhappy.

I will never understand what it is about me that makes people feel uncomfortable. People can sense my discomfort - and that makes me feel bad.

I am getting that old feeling that people really hate me.

Bravo for socializing Kiakaha. *applauds*

I really don't know where to find the reason why people would feel like that around you. I wouldn't. I would just say I completely understand where you're coming from. I have to admit I have the same fear in my head, that I make people uncomfortable by my awkwardness and I was just thinking today that I might be not a fun person to hang out with, cuz I'm so fearful so I have a forced smile, or something.

Well, you know, you could always put on a smile more throughout the days, I know it's hard when you don't feel like it, but it always makes people smile too.

And you know, for me the reason is, is that I have a lot of negative emotion, pain and sadness (don't know why), so that's a reason I think people don't like being around me because I might give off a vibe that I'm not optimistic enough so I'm not fun because I'm in deep thoughts and can't open my eyes to fun sometimes, it really *****.

But hey, anyways, I LOVE your posts here, I even get inspired by your words, you are very intelligent and have so many thoughts I haven't been thinking about yet about SA, so clever man, you can always inspire people ;)
Maybe you should use that trick during conversations ;)
 

Graeme1988

Hie yer hence from me heath!
Well, I was right! I wasn't going tae be left alone today. Ma oldest sister manipulative as per usual.

My sister: "C'mon, you've no been out for a few days..."
Me: "Ma legs are feeling sore today"
My sister again: "Aw, c'mon... what's wrong with ya?!" *
Me (in my head): See my previous answer!
* Get tae f**k!
 
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