How are you feeling?

MikeyC

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I know more people than I care to who are like this, all family members. I get being proud, we've all been too proud to admit to something at some point, but being completely oblivious to yourself?

Drives me nuts to deal with those people. Probably because I just can't wrap my head around it, because I can't NOT notice my faults. Not always a good thing, but at least I'm not oblivious.....
Great post, and I agree. Sometimes we have to take responsibility for our own actions, which I've done in the past many times.

It's the end of the day, and I'm feeling disappointed in myself. I had a good conversation with someone at work about my social anxiety, which was nice, but overall I could've done better today. Oh, well. Soldier on for tomorrow....
 

MrJones

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Now I'm not talking about children, and I don't know if it's something usual, but I can make a lot of mistakes. Instead that someone saying how rude I am I would like people to tell me what I've done wrong so I can do it better in the future.

I don't remember a day that I didn't feel like I've said/done something bad for someone (without intention, of course), but if it's not my intention I would like to know what was my mistake.

Maybe it's not true and it's all this feeling of guilt and shame I can't seem to get rid of, but I don't know, I want people to tell me what I've done wrong. I don't want to make people feel bad...


So if you ever see someone being obliviously unappropiate maybe you should try to talk to them instead than keeping it to yourself :)

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On a separate note now I've started to think about all the times it happened... I always feel like I'm doing something unappropiate, even if I'm just wishing someone a good day. I can't help it. Am I being rude? Annoying? Ugh, everytime I think about it I feel like I should stop talking to everyone and let them have a better, peaceful life ::(:
 

MikeyC

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My mood has worsened. I should get to sleep. I hate this.

On a separate note now I've started to think about all the times it happened... I always feel like I'm doing something unappropiate, even if I'm just wishing someone a good day. I can't help it. Am I being rude? Annoying? Ugh, everytime I think about it I feel like I should stop talking to everyone and let them have a better, peaceful life ::(:
You're not being rude. Just polite. You're being better than most people in the world.
 

twiggle

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This house is a sun-trap so inside it is hot yet outside it is freezing. Strange things are happening to my hair!
 
There's a group of people in the computer next to mine (I'm not home right now), they're checking what movie are they're going to watch on the cinema.

I feel awful.
 

Srijita52

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Ahhh, I can partially understand this. We didn't fall out of touch though.
On what basis did you fall out of touch with them?


I'm just wondering how something can vary so much. So you get boys who are willing to insult women on the street, and then you get... an extreme. I walked past a boy from Challener today (although, I'm guessing this boy was about 16 instead of 12/13) and he...in a way, although it was a little vulgar, made a positive comment about me.
So how can there be so much variation? Is it just that there's a cut off point for shallow? Actually, it might just be the whole group mentality. They insult as a group, but individually...they can be quite nice people.

Haha not totally out of touch maybe, my best friend, who was my friend for 10 years is now going to a different college, we still talk and all but no longer can see each other till the vacations. About the boy, I agree, sometimes people do a certain act only as a group. Maybe he's trying to impress his friends or too scared to go against them.
 

Srijita52

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Yeah, probably haha. It was a different boy though. I think once they get to that age (like 16+) they grow up a bit. He said something positive about my body, which I definitely did not expect.

Are you going to see your friend this holiday?

Probably not this time :( Haha yeah, maybe they do. Depends completely on the person though.
 

Silatuyok

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I have to admit, the staff meeting/social gathering today at work was actually kinda fun. Even the "Getting the know you Bingo" game wasn't nearly as bad as I was imagining it would be. I'm feeling pretty good.
 

DeadmanWalking

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I have to admit, the staff meeting/social gathering today at work was actually kinda fun. Even the "Getting the know you Bingo" game wasn't nearly as bad as I was imagining it would be. I'm feeling pretty good.

Good on ya, Marie! Glad you had some fun:)!

I am feeling moderately cold. The weather outside is cold and I had the bad luck of wearing shorts and a short-sleeved shirt with nothing covering myself. Now, it's hard to type and I might go back outside to get something to eat (still considering that). I want someone to hug so that I can warm up. So, any volunteers or do I have to forcibly hug someone, because I WILL do it:rolleyes:! I'm a desperate man on the edge with nothing to lose::p:!
 
B

Beatrice

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Coooooold!!! Rainy and miserable day outside, wet socks are no fun. Too bad my rain boots are at my parents' house..... :rolleyes: And every umbrella I buy breaks on me. I need an L.L. Bean one or something, the Totes just don't seem to cut it, though everyone swears by them.

Besides being chilly, I'm neutral I guess. Nothing bad going on, nothing too exciting (besides the friend I made last night and something else that happened today...... hehe), just good old studying and perhaps the gym later if I can bring myself to trudge out into the rain again. Yeah, may skip it today......
 

MikeyC

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I have to admit, the staff meeting/social gathering today at work was actually kinda fun. Even the "Getting the know you Bingo" game wasn't nearly as bad as I was imagining it would be. I'm feeling pretty good.
"Getting to know you...bingo"? Wow. Okay, that sounds incredibly lame, haha! Glad it went well for you, though. :D
 

WeirdyMcGee

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Confused...
Not so sure if it was credit fraud or I really did start a $3000 tab at a bar in Montreal...
oh, wait-- I've never been. Must be fraud. XD


Slightly annoyed.
 

MikeyC

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Oh, that's terrible, Weirdy! I hope you get your money back! ::(:

I was the subject of fraud, as well, when over $1000 was hacked from my account via PayPal. I got it back in the end but damn, it was annoying. I seriously hope you get it back.
 

WeirdyMcGee

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Oh, that's terrible, Weirdy! I hope you get your money back! ::(:

I was the subject of fraud, as well, when over $1000 was hacked from my account via PayPal. I got it back in the end but damn, it was annoying. I seriously hope you get it back.

Shouldn't be much of a problem.
I've plenty of proof that it wasn't me - the only way I even know about it was because my card security emailed me to let me know about a strange transaction.
So... thank goodness for newfangled card security.
 
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