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Agent_Violet

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FYI bulimia is terrible for your esophogus(sp??) and your teeth. Your body wasn't meant to withstand the acid content of your stomach in those two areas.

prolonged bulimic activity will cause your body to reject food and you'll begin vomiting simply bc your body can't handle digesting more than a tiny amount of food.

when you go to get your teeth cleaned, your dentist will be able to tell that you're bulimic just by looking in your mouth.
 
Chaotik

Chaotik

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cesgrandsyeux said:
I wouldn't say I'm a little girl. I think, no offence, but this kind of advice makes me feel worse about myself. I know you tried, I'm grateful. But an encouragement to 'lose weight' to solve my problems doesn't really solve much in the long run. I'm still going to hate myself. I just... don't know how to get comfortable with my weight.
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I'm sorry if I said something wrong. I know what it means to not be at ease with own bodies. I think you are uncomfortable with your weight because stupid people say you are fat, and so you believe it.
I'd like to help you but don't know how. Only thing that I say you is that you aren't fat and the bullies that say contrary are only idiots.
 
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Agent_Violet

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Nothing anyone says right now is going to make you feel better...but if I could I would come to your school with my scary angry woman attitude and make all of them cry for being so terrible. not nice to make people cry...unless they deserve it;)
 
MaliceInWickedland

MaliceInWickedland

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twiggle said:
I'm really sorry to hear about your job, Malice ::(:
Are there any other libraries in your area that you could apply to? Or book-shops?
Because with a reference like the one above ^, I'm sure there are plenty of employers that would love to take you on.
I hope you find something soon :)
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Don't be. I mean, things happen for a reason right? I'm still a bit shaken up from yesterday and all but I'm at least glad to know that I was able to last at that job for almost a year and the things that my manager told me about myself as an employee helped boost my confidence quite a bit. There used to be another library a couple blocks away from my home, but it also went down the gutter because of the economy. Although, there is a Barnes and Noble bookstore near the local mall that I'm looking into. Either way it's really difficult to find a good and simple job for a teen around here, especially one that doesn't involve too much social interaction.
 
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planemo

planemo

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the worse i've felt in a long time. i should have just stayed at home, where it's safe (but monotonous and incredibly boring)::(:
 
Falkor

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a little depressed. just because i feel lonely. it's so hard to make friends at school. people start talking to me though. but i appear so different than other people because i'm awkward. i feel like an alien. and i start thinking about that i don't have many friends in day life. i looked at the pictures on facebook of other ppl and see all the lifes i never lived. yeah doh. you live once. but i want more in life.. i just need action. i need dreams, i need to see the other side of the world with my girl, i want to sing on stage again, i want to write a book, i want to graduate, i want to make my parents happy and let all the stress go all together... where is the happy beauty. life can be so serious and it is for me all time. i need joy and it's depressing me right now. but i try to think and dream
 
twiggle

twiggle

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Saskia said:
a little depressed. just because i feel lonely. it's so hard to make friends at school. people start talking to me though. but i appear so different than other people because i'm awkward. i feel like an alien. and i start thinking about that i don't have many friends in day life. i looked at the pictures on facebook of other ppl and see all the lifes i never lived. yeah doh. you live once. but i want more in life.. i just need action. i need dreams, i need to see the other side of the world with my girl, i want to sing on stage again, i want to write a book, i want to graduate, i want to make my parents happy and let all the stress go all together... where is the happy beauty. life can be so serious and it is for me all time. i need joy and it's depressing me right now. but i try to think and dream
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The first step towards achieving a dream is to identify it, and you've done that part! You know what you want... a lot of people don't. You can do everything you want to, those are all dreams and aspirations that I know you can reach because even in the few months I've been on this forum you seem to have made so much progress.

The worst thing you can do though is to compare yourself to what you see of other people. I used to get worked up about the same thing... FB makes me feel like a loser occasionally, but then I read somebody on another forum say that you shouldn't compare your insides to somebody else's outsides. What people put on FB and how they really are are two different things so there's no point comparing yourself to them.

Write down those goals and then break them down into smaller pieces that you can accomplish one step at a time. You can do it!! :)
 
Phoenixx

Phoenixx

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Saskia said:
a little depressed. just because i feel lonely. it's so hard to make friends at school. people start talking to me though. but i appear so different than other people because i'm awkward. i feel like an alien. and i start thinking about that i don't have many friends in day life. i looked at the pictures on facebook of other ppl and see all the lifes i never lived. yeah doh. you live once. but i want more in life.. i just need action. i need dreams, i need to see the other side of the world with my girl, i want to sing on stage again, i want to write a book, i want to graduate, i want to make my parents happy and let all the stress go all together... where is the happy beauty. life can be so serious and it is for me all time. i need joy and it's depressing me right now. but i try to think and dream
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^ I know exactly how you feel. I've pretty much have felt the same way these last 4 weeks.
 
MaliceInWickedland

MaliceInWickedland

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Have you ever seen or had one of those squishy slippery jelly/water-filled tubes that slip out of your grasp whenever you squeeze them? Well, that's how I feel right now. Like a weird little sack of goo that keeps slipping out of everyone's grasp.
 
P+G

P+G

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I'm in my room in halls and I can hear people outside screaming and running around. They sounded so close and loud for a moment, it made my heart jump. :(
 
megalon

megalon

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P+G said:
I'm in my room in halls and I can hear people outside screaming and running around. They sounded so close and loud for a moment, it made my heart jump. :(
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Open the door slowly and make sure there are no zombies around.
 
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userremoved

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Never tell anyone your secret or whats wrong with you. NEVER. You will be judged and they will make you feel worse about yourself
 
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userremoved

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Ok I got an apology. Still though, dont tell everyone. Just only people you can trust
 
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AGR

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yay today I have the day off because of the typhoon,being working a lot lately,but I hope it isnt serious.
 
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