Hot Psychologist ;)

[CursedSoul]

Hi, aint posted in a while, been kinda busy with this problem, I came across this shrink this time at the hospital and this shrink is a very very hot one, i get all sweaty around em, do you think if somehow things go okay and i get lucky enough to go out with a shrink? would it feel normal?

 

[Arthur_Dent]

What do you mean by coming across, did she treated you or you just saw her around? If she treated you, even if you'll never be her patient again, she may be cautious to have a personal relationship with you.

If you haven't been her patient, what difference does it make if she's a psychologist? If that's the case, and you think you can do it, I don't see why you shouldn't try to approach her.

 

[CursedSoul]

yup..treated face to face..

 

[Section_31]

yea if you havnt been her patient at all and wont be in the foreseeable future i call fair game! the hunt is on!

 

[CursedSoul]

well i kinda caught her lookin at me a lotta times and then she took over my file from the last shrink, now she is handling my case and calls me at the office far more frequently than the ones i been with lately...damn its just barely a feet b/w us on the talk table and she is smoke!!!

 

[Angkorwat]

Sounds like a beginning to a movie

 

[Hellhound]

You only want to hit on her because she's hot? Don't you think you should get to know her just a bit before the approach?

Besides, if she's going to treat you, things might be awkward, imo.

 

[GraybeardGhost]

I understand how challenging it can be to deal with an attractive member of the opposite sex in a professional setting. The added distraction can make an uncomfortable situation even more confusing and awkward. Don't do anything foolish. Getting involved with a patient—even the appearance of such involvement—could do serious damage to her career, even end it. Furthermore, it would likely knock your own progress in therapy back several steps. If you can't get these thoughts out of your head, I strongly advise you to request that your case be transferred to another pshrink.

 

[NathanielWingatePeaslee]

^I was debating posting a picture of Megatron doing a facepalm, but your words are probably more helpful to him, GB.

:thumbup:

 

[CursedSoul]

I understand how challenging it can be to deal with an attractive member of the opposite sex in a professional setting. The added distraction can make an uncomfortable situation even more confusing and awkward. Don't do anything foolish. Getting involved with a patient—even the appearance of such involvement—could do serious damage to her career, even end it. Furthermore, it would likely knock your own progress in therapy back several steps. If you can't get these thoughts out of your head, I strongly advise you to request that your case be transferred to another pshrink.

she messed up with the files, she took it off the last shrink's table and next day i was taken to her office and baam, the door was closed by her assistant, after that she asked her to leave us alone until the next appointee arrives...i am helpless here, its gone official and i am getting embarrassed all alone with a ''heater'' just a foot away, i can even tell what perfume she wears at what day! :question:

 

[IntheLabyrinth]

It's highly unlikely she would risk her career over a relationship. If you do want to try to make something happen, you should stop being her patient immediately. Then you would probably have a shot. However, I am not sure if that still violates some code of ethics that she must follow.

 

[jaim38]

Remember your goal is to get well and overcome your SA. If this psychologist is too sexy and distracting for you, consider finding a new one. Or you end up not overcoming your SA and your money down the drain.

 

[SilentAndShy]

I would tread very VERY carefully. Are you sure it's not a crush or lust? I'd imagine I'd be the same if I had a psychologist who was attractive and was polite etc. Although it'd be more lust than having a relationship with her.

Like people have said, if you make a move as her patient it could seriously backfire. I think she'd be duty bound to report it (?) and ask for you to see someone else.

Best bet would be to stop seeing her and then hope you bump into her outside work hours and drum up a conversation although even then she might be uncomfortable.

Good luck!

 

[hexagon_sun]

Suppose you want to survey everything that has happened and currently happening in your life all at once. You would probably would imagine you are piloting a plane, that soars to 30,000 ft. You look out the window and you see how everything is laid out and interconnected by "rivers." People don't often hop on that plane and take that ride so they don't see how the "rivers" interconnect everything. You see at once the relationship between cause and effect where as before you just reacted to each situation the same way, with the same information, yet expecting a different outcome. Hop on that plane dude! See which way those rivers are flowing!

 

[CursedSoul]

Suppose you want to survey everything that has happened and currently happening in your life all at once. You would probably would imagine you are piloting a plane, that soars to 30,000 ft. You look out the window and you see how everything is laid out and interconnected by "rivers." People don't often hop on that plane and take that ride so they don't see how the "rivers" interconnect everything. You see at once the relationship between cause and effect where as before you just reacted to each situation the same way, with the same information, yet expecting a different outcome. Hop on that plane dude! See which way those rivers are flowing!

errrmmmm....explanation please

 

[CursedSoul]

It's highly unlikely she would risk her career over a relationship. If you do want to try to make something happen, you should stop being her patient immediately. Then you would probably have a shot. However, I am not sure if that still violates some code of ethics that she must follow.

why'd she risk her career over this thing? huh things could go off the office eh.....

 

[Remus]

You don't seem to be taking your therapy seriously. C'mon man, get yourself well!

 

[bcsr]

She most likely would lose her license if she was found to be in a relationship with a patient in her care. It is extremely unlikely anything is ever going to happen, and to think otherwise is deluding yourself. It's her job to pay attention to you and make you feel comfortable, so you will openly discuss your problems.

You go to therapy to get help. If you can't take it seriously because the therapist is attractive, you need to request another therapist.

 

[KiaKaha]

I say go for it.

Hey, it its mutual whats the harm?

Who has the right to say whether or not two people can pursue an interest in each other despite contest or professional roles? And how does anyone here know how the therapist actually feels at all?

if it goes that way, you will have to get another therapist of course, but because she is your therapist doesn't mean that something could not eventuate if there is mutual and consensual attraction.

Go for it brother - ignore the righteous advice, but use some common sense too.

Key is consensual.

 

[Remus]

Is this even mutual OP?

Very little feedback on that.

This springs to mind:

You should talk to emre about this maybe. He had the same trouble but came out of it well.