Hot Psychologist ;)
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theslowesthand
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I doubt she even has any idea how "hot" she comes accross as ... since she's been living with her own "hotness" her whole life. I do find this annoying, when certain women just HAVE to wear clothes/makeup/jewelry/etc which 100% accentuates their sexiness/womanliness. It's like anything less is unnacceptable. They MUST have men "drooling" over them, to have adequate self-esteem. Other women though, are real "hot" without hardly trying. Whatever the case, i avoid them all, as it ONLY brings "trouble" for me.
Similarlry, a few years back, kind of as the above pic shows, i was seeing a woman therapist (who was pretty, feminine, slim, hot, etc). Since i was (& still aren't) never around women, attractive or not, i found it "hard" to deal with, being in close, isolated proximity to her. At one point i had the balls to ask her if she'd have sex with me (yes, i actually said those words!
h: lol). She naturally said no, and that was the end of it (i still saw her in sessions, and will probably see her later this year also). Ummm, yeah, not really sure what else i can say here.....
Similarlry, a few years back, kind of as the above pic shows, i was seeing a woman therapist (who was pretty, feminine, slim, hot, etc). Since i was (& still aren't) never around women, attractive or not, i found it "hard" to deal with, being in close, isolated proximity to her. At one point i had the balls to ask her if she'd have sex with me (yes, i actually said those words!
h: lol). She naturally said no, and that was the end of it (i still saw her in sessions, and will probably see her later this year also). Ummm, yeah, not really sure what else i can say here.....
Hellhound
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Or maybe they just like it...? Geez
hexagon_sun
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First of all, It's not likely she is interested in getting romanticly or sexually involved with you, risking damage to her professional reputation.
Also, your urges are overshadowing your ability to reason. Imagine you did sleep with her. What will the relationship be like from that point on? Once your urge has been satisfied, how do you see her? Would you trust her to see you at your most vulnerable? If you feel like you can not allow yourself to be vulnerable around this person, than they won't be effective as a therapist.
There is a conflict of roles, or interest. It may not be obvious at first, but if you allow yourself to think about it, it'll make sense to you. If there's a little voice telling you not to do it, I would suggest listening to it. It will save you from a lot of heartache and disappointment. Surviving at life is a subtle art. The littlest nuances can change the course of your life dramatically.
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theslowesthand
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Well, yeah ... they like feeling like sex goddesses.
But i get your point, it is sometimes purely innocent. Maybe some just want to feel feminine & sexy, but not uber-hot, and certainly not intending on attracting male attention - even though they do.
CursedSoul
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yup she puts on attractive dresses all the times, you know what I mean?:blushing:
CursedSoul
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huh? sleeping is not the main point here, eh? you jumped on it directly..:kickingmyself:
CursedSoul
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h:hmmm....never thought about it, she is quite young though so I guess its highly unlikely she is married....:thumbup:
CursedSoul
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goin for next appointment...this friday...but before that gotta see the groom n' saloon:blushing: