Hot Psychologist ;)

^ That is what I was wondering.

I doubt she even has any idea how "hot" she comes accross as ... since she's been living with her own "hotness" her whole life. I do find this annoying, when certain women just HAVE to wear clothes/makeup/jewelry/etc which 100% accentuates their sexiness/womanliness. It's like anything less is unnacceptable. They MUST have men "drooling" over them, to have adequate self-esteem. Other women though, are real "hot" without hardly trying. Whatever the case, i avoid them all, as it ONLY brings "trouble" for me.

Similarlry, a few years back, kind of as the above pic shows, i was seeing a woman therapist (who was pretty, feminine, slim, hot, etc). Since i was (& still aren't) never around women, attractive or not, i found it "hard" to deal with, being in close, isolated proximity to her. At one point i had the balls to ask her if she'd have sex with me (yes, i actually said those words! :oh: lol). She naturally said no, and that was the end of it (i still saw her in sessions, and will probably see her later this year also). Ummm, yeah, not really sure what else i can say here.....

But what if you made your move and it turn out she had a husband......

Don't go for it. It's a ridiculous and unrealistic fantasy...

On no planet will this ever happen..

theslowesthand said: ↑

I do find this annoying, when certain women just HAVE to wear clothes/makeup/jewelry/etc which 100% accentuates their sexiness/womanliness. It's like anything less is unnacceptable. They MUST have men "drooling" over them, to have adequate self-esteem.

Or maybe they just like it...? Geez

CursedSoul said: ↑

errrmmmm....explanation please

First of all, It's not likely she is interested in getting romanticly or sexually involved with you, risking damage to her professional reputation.

Also, your urges are overshadowing your ability to reason. Imagine you did sleep with her. What will the relationship be like from that point on? Once your urge has been satisfied, how do you see her? Would you trust her to see you at your most vulnerable? If you feel like you can not allow yourself to be vulnerable around this person, than they won't be effective as a therapist.

There is a conflict of roles, or interest. It may not be obvious at first, but if you allow yourself to think about it, it'll make sense to you. If there's a little voice telling you not to do it, I would suggest listening to it. It will save you from a lot of heartache and disappointment. Surviving at life is a subtle art. The littlest nuances can change the course of your life dramatically.

This sort of reminds me of the movie that is currently out in theaters called Side Effects. Sort of..you guys should watch it.

Hellhound said: ↑

Or maybe they just like it...? Geez

Well, yeah ... they like feeling like sex goddesses.
But i get your point, it is sometimes purely innocent. Maybe some just want to feel feminine & sexy, but not uber-hot, and certainly not intending on attracting male attention - even though they do.

theslowesthand said: ↑

Well, yeah ... they like feeling like sex goddesses.

yup she puts on attractive dresses all the times, you know what I mean?:blushing:

hexagon_sun said: ↑

First of all, It's not likely she is interested in getting romanticly or sexually involved with you, risking damage to her professional reputation.

Also, your urges are overshadowing your ability to reason. Imagine you did sleep with her. What will the relationship be like from that point on? Once your urge has been satisfied, how do you see her? Would you trust her to see you at your most vulnerable? If you feel like you can not allow yourself to be vulnerable around this person, than they won't be effective as a therapist.

There is a conflict of roles, or interest. It may not be obvious at first, but if you allow yourself to think about it, it'll make sense to you. If there's a little voice telling you not to do it, I would suggest listening to it. It will save you from a lot of heartache and disappointment. Surviving at life is a subtle art. The littlest nuances can change the course of your life dramatically.

huh? sleeping is not the main point here, eh? you jumped on it directly..:kickingmyself:

Bo592 said: ↑

But what if you made your move and it turn out she had a husband......

:oh:hmmm....never thought about it, she is quite young though so I guess its highly unlikely she is married....:thumbup:

goin for next appointment...this friday...but before that gotta see the groom n' saloon:blushing: