Yes. I think so. But it wasn't only having SA, but also just my situation anyway didn't help
BUT, I think because of this. Part of me will always be stuck there. Its like since Ive "mised out", part of me will always want to fulfil it in a way. I mean I don't relate to what older people do ( I mean when they look at other "adults" and think they have to do the same to fit with society). Call this stupid if you want but I feel it keeps my spirit where I want it. I still feel basically like I did as a "teenager" and since the actual age is just a number of how long you've existed, and time doen't really exist anyway, its how I feel that counts.
And to me it wuldn't be important to learn how to approach girls back then for the purpose of finding someone to marry/have kidswith in he future. Because I don't want to do that in the future, and don't want to do it because its expected or the norm. BUT I would have liked to experince things with the opposite sex just because it would be nice. And do feel I mised out then because at the school time, most people start to do that. I couldn't because on top of SA and stuff, I went to an all boys school. However, if I were to experience it now, I would appreciate it in the same way would have then, I think.
I always wonder what it would have been like if went to a mixed one. Of course I was sent to the all boys one, because it was catholic. It wsn't a choice. However mabey it wouldn't have been any better in some ways. I don't know.
But I didn't like the atmosphere. It was very rough with lots of rough boys about.
I sometmes have dreams about starting school again, somehwere else.
And I fel in a way like I could quite easily go again now, and make up for it haha.
I really hated and still hate the idea of school in that its like a prison. Well, mine seemed like it. But I feel like I could go again and not think I was too old haha.
But Oh well as I said I am still in the mindset of still fulfiling it. I don't even look at people a few years younger an think theres a big difference. Of couse, I feel different to most people in general anyway, but I mean in terms of what label I/they are.
But I'm no sayng it will be fulfilled in the way I want. Because the same problems are there. But I mean the midset. I will always be in, and able to appreciate if littl bits are temporarily fulfilled at all.