Do you think you're ugly?
- Thread starter Argamemnon
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Yea, for a while I felt like in order to make people happy with my looks, I had to do what they wanted. I went through a hard time. You're a sweet and gorgeous woman.
Bree1989
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Hahaha. Thanks, that's nice!
shakethelight
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I keep missing when you post your picture! But, everyone was saying how beautiful you were & I don't doubt it for a second. I was reading about how horrible some people treated you-I'd like to go back in time and kick them myself. I hate bullies. Never change for anyone! Youre lovely!
ImNotMyIllness
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For the most part, yes. (although I do have very nice eyes). Some women find me attractive after they get to know me. My personality, intelligence and sense of humor seems to play a huge role. I'm an acquired taste, like paint chips! LOL!
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crazycatlady27
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i am not a pretty picture lol , and i dont really mind that much. i have excepted myself i suppose, i used to have real issues when i was a teenager. I have had boyfriends so i cant be so ugly that you point and scream in the street lol
odetoanoddity
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It depends.
There have been times where I've found myself to be too hideous for society (I compare myself to my friends who happen to be all goddesses, and I'm just... ugh.)
But then I *really* look at myself and I'm not bad... not gorgeous or anything, but OK. I've had my share of compliments.. people telling me that I'm pretty, beautiful, cute and all the synonyms in the world. Yet, I'd also have the reverse... I remember a particular moment, I was in my final year of highschool and two friends (right in my face and infront of my other classes and homeroom teacher) one of them goes to me: you're really ugly and the other friend agrees saying: you're probably my ugliest friend - that just... that just stung me and really lowered my self esteem (not saying I had much of a self esteem to begin with), but to hear that from your own friends... A much more recent case was when my ex boyfriend said he needed to drink before he slept with me (whether he be joking or not, it still cut through me) and I had another ex before him, who left me with no explanation... to this day, I think he left me because of my looks... bleugh, they were both bastards anyway.
Now, I'm with a guy who has seen me and loves me the way I am. That ex who said he needed to drink to sleep with me... well, he's become the stalker ex, still in love with me and wanting me back! ha!
There have been times where I've found myself to be too hideous for society (I compare myself to my friends who happen to be all goddesses, and I'm just... ugh.)
But then I *really* look at myself and I'm not bad... not gorgeous or anything, but OK. I've had my share of compliments.. people telling me that I'm pretty, beautiful, cute and all the synonyms in the world. Yet, I'd also have the reverse... I remember a particular moment, I was in my final year of highschool and two friends (right in my face and infront of my other classes and homeroom teacher) one of them goes to me: you're really ugly and the other friend agrees saying: you're probably my ugliest friend - that just... that just stung me and really lowered my self esteem (not saying I had much of a self esteem to begin with), but to hear that from your own friends... A much more recent case was when my ex boyfriend said he needed to drink before he slept with me (whether he be joking or not, it still cut through me) and I had another ex before him, who left me with no explanation... to this day, I think he left me because of my looks... bleugh, they were both bastards anyway.
Now, I'm with a guy who has seen me and loves me the way I am. That ex who said he needed to drink to sleep with me... well, he's become the stalker ex, still in love with me and wanting me back! ha!
ImNotMyIllness
Well-known member
Yep. I resemble the aliens on Close Encounters of the Third Kind except my stomach's bigger.
Also my hair's much longer.
And I'm not as happy looking either. ::
That can't be true! I love your comment about not looking as happy. That looks like one unhappy alien. I think for humor alone, the ladies would give you some major bonus points.
*LOL. My hair is much longer.... Best post of the year!
WishingICould
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I don't think I'm ugly but if people give me compliments I never believe them and I always feel inferior to other women.
Dennis1980
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I don't think I'm really ugly, I think I'm a little ugly.
cocorose
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Me too. I do hate my teeth though, so that makes me feel ugly if there is a picture with my teeth showing or I'm laughing. Or if I'm having a bad day. Then I feel ugly.
