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Do you think you're ugly?

Started by Argamemnon · May 21, 2009 · 586 replies

#241 Report
I am grateful for my looks. I'm not very good looking, but I don't think I am really ugly. Besides, it's character that counts ultimately.
#242 Report
I would think so ya!
#243 Report
Hm..I don't think I'm ugly..I just think I'm not pretty..does that make any sense? 😕
#244 Report
KiaraBlue said: ↑
Hm..I don't think I'm ugly..I just think I'm not pretty..does that make any sense? 😕

Not really...:😛:
#245 Report
I have red hair but I have an ugly nose. Basically I think I look average but I just don't like my nose. It's hook shaped.
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DarthMessias said: ↑
Not really...:😛:

LOL..I think I wanted to say that I think that I'm not ugly that you would have 'to turn away look' but also don't think I'm beautiful..😕
#247 Report
Oh yeah. Especially now I gained 14lbs in couple months due to stress, depression, caused by anxiety.
#248 Report
Ugly doesn't even begin to describe it. I feel so hopeless within my own body. I avoid mirrors at all costs. It's mostly because of my weight, though. I've accepted my face as something that I simply just cannot change. My weight, however, is my fault. Most days, I feel like I'm nothing but a disgusting, fat parasite.

I was looking in the mirror earlier (something that I should NOT do; especially when depressed). I lifted up my shirt and even though I know I'm overweight, it really just hit me hard. Seeing how flabby I am everywhere and how big my gut is...it truly makes me want to put a bullet in my brain. And the fact that it makes me feel THAT horrible, makes it even worse because I know it's not that big of a deal. I make it to be a huge problem, though. Sure, I could work my ass off and lose weight...but is it really worth it? I can't stay motivated. My depression kicks in and I just don't want to anymore. Not to mention the fact that I have no money to go out and get healthy food. Or any food, for that matter.

/end emoness.
#249 Report
Yep. One of my main problems. It's a little better now, but a little while back it was so bad. I couldn't find one single thing about myself that I thought was attractive. I was so OCD about it, I couldn't stand it. I still don't feel that great about myself though...

Most of my image problems come from making comparisons to my friends or others I see. But, it's impossible for me not to compare, even though I know it's destructive.
#250 Report
Yes. I was teased mercilessly about my looks as a child and it contributed in no small part to my social phobia. Since I took my first tentative steps out into the big wide world at the age of around 17, nobody but my family has commented negatively on my looks so I figured I can't be that fugly. And random guys don't mind striking striking up conversations with me. That must count for something!

So while I may consider myself unattractive, I'm probably good-looking enough... I think... maybe.. I hope.... I don't know. My looks don't seem to adversely affect my attempts to interact with people so I don't see any point in stressing about it.
#251 Report
Well I'm definately not ugly. But I'm not so great either. Even though I've been told I'm fairly good looking....I refuse to believe it. :🙁:
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Redskinsfan said: ↑
Well I'm definately not ugly. But I'm not so great either. Even though I've been told I'm fairly good looking....I refuse to believe it. :🙁:

I'm like you redskinsfan, i've been told i'm not bad looking as well, but i just think the people that say that are being nice and don't want to hurt my feelings! I've hated the way i look for such a long time now that i doubt a few compliments will change that.
#253 Report
No, not really.

Can't see what difference it makes, anyway.
#254 Report
ugly is as ugly does so that makes me Gorgeous , i have no idea what that means i just made it up , but im sure it will give you lot something to think about for a while trying to work out what the hell im talking about 🙂 good luck with that ....
#255 Report
Do I think I'm ugly? Sometimes. More often than not probably.
#256 Report
when i think im looking ugly its normally caused by the face im making rather then my face itself. so yes, depends on the mood i am in but weather or not i know im beautiful yet i know i can be ugly looking too haha ..just gotta make a disgusted face 😛
#257 Report
People often tell me that I'm a cute girl but I always find myself cringing when I look into the mirror and have a difficult time figuring out what it is about me that's "cute". I don't know why, I just keep finding new flaws about myself no matter how many physical changes I undergo.
#258 Report
I think that the person I see when I look in the mirror is very ugly.
Offensively ugly.
#259 Report
I've been told both handsome (and not only my mother lol) and ugly, so I have no idea how people perceive me.

Anyway, yes I think I'm rather ugly.
#260 Report
Huge yes for me. I honestly think I'm probably one of the ugliest girls on the planet. People have called me "cute" before, and I actually had one person call me "gorgeous" (And one friend said I'd look "gorgeous", but only if I wore makeup 🙄), but what the heck are they seeing? 😕 I seriously don't see it at all. I can't even take a picture of myself, and I hate being around other people with cameras. I can look in a mirror, but not continuously. I try to avoid my reflection at all times, that includes flipping my mp3 player face down when I'm listening to it so I don't have to see myself. Even when I have to swipe my ID to either get in the door or for meals at college, I always place my thumb over my face. XD And if it's in my hand or I lay it on my desk, it's face down, where no one can look at it.

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